friends help: It’s been four or five months since my Girlfriend, or Ex - Help.com

Stick with what works! Try and have another get together with your friends, or do stuff to keep your life full of excitement (or work =/).

I’ve been where you’re at dude. There’s no denying your feelings, however since they’re coming back you can’t let your mind dwell on them. Conqure your feelings and find what it was that gave you that feeling to make yu think you didn’t have to think about her every day. Take up a new hobby, it actually helps. I took up learning the guitar and it’s been helping me get my frustration out even though I’m not that great yet. Also, continuing to come back here and vent your feelings really helps too, ironically.

You’re going to get through it. Yeah, you’re going to see her every day and that’s fine. She’s also going to see you. The thing is you have to remember that there is no romantic attachment anymore. You can’t dwell on what was when you’re in her presence. She can’t be the one that governs your life. You have to do what’s best for you. I know at this point you feel as if she was the only thing to make you really happy in your life and I feel you there. The thing is you just have to keep letting your mind have those things in the past. It’s okay to remember your relationship for what it was, but at the same time you can’t let it consume you. It’s okay to cry, let out your emotions, be frustated.

Keep your chin up dude, look out for number one. Keep your thoughts on your schooling and education because that should be your main concern right now.

trust me if she dumped you just like that and she knows u realy care aabout here just go over her cu she dosnt desrve this and if she wants you she will hint you and be strong ,, in a matter of time u going to rember this post you added becus of her and u gaoing to laugh and say how did i do that,, personal experice and so many ppl goz da sma wd thm cuz thers is no sided lov,,, and u cant just grab into here and my advicez is backooff frm soung cuzthey make u go so imotional ,,and wanting her more and i dont think u want this to happn,,gud luck