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Tell me what you love about your love.

Your BF/GF, Husband/Wife, your Partner/Lover, how do you feel when your around them, why are you in love with them ? I want to know all the good things about love, what is it like?

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

He loves me back.

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*Dorien* offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 316 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Im going to keep this simple, I love everything about my love.

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Pillow offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Everything.

Especially her creativity, her ability to understand me, and her intelligence to comprehend me. And I suppose her beauty, too.

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

Wow, you want a list? That might take a while. Lol.

He makes me smile for no reason, laugh for the same reason, and makes me feel better no matter what crap happens. He can be deep thinking, but hilariously random at the same time (which makes me smile/laugh) we can talk about almost anything and even though we barely say it, I think we understand each other more than we understand ourselves most times. He knows me better than I know myself, and while usually that would scare me, it doesn’t with him. That’s a big meaningful thing to me. He’s charming, intelligent, handsome (even though for some weird and reason unbeknownst to me he doesn’t think so) he’s sweet, and humble, but not as much that he’s boring, he still has his occasional boughts of pride, which is lovable too, because I’m proud of him.

Most of all though, like JesusMurphy: he loves me. And it’s got nothing to do with me being selfish, I’d love him all the same even if he didn’t, and for the same reasons.

I don’t have a lot of people in my life who accept me for who I am, especially someone as wonderful, amazing, and loving as he does. It just makes it all the more special that I know no matter what, I’ll always have him, and vice versa. Providing I don’t screw it up along the way. I’ve come close, and I seriously am NOT going there again. It scared the life out of me. Literally.

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babacup offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

The love that my husband and I have is such a beautiful thing. I do not even know how to put it into words. There is a knowing and a comfort, an appreciation, a chemistry between us that allows me to express myself fully. I know him so well, and he knows me so well, that in any situation, we know what the other is feeling without words being said. There is a trust and a faith that we have for each other that allows us to vulnerable to each other without worry.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

He’s new to this relationship thing, its fun and complicated and passionate. He lets me into his vulnerability. Hes amazing. His eyes are beautiful. I like him for him, and he makes me like me for me. The romance is incredible. He shows me how to love in every small action. He keeps me guessing. He kisses tender, and cuddles. He doesn’t cook. He drives safely and pays for his ipod downloads, His body is amazing and he has his own style. I love him.

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Polly Power online Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 49 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

I said never and he said that’s not true.

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Lucerne offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

My relationship with my boyfriend is a little bit complicated. But we love each other and we’re having fun.

I love him because he’s funny and he makes me smile and laugh all the time. Especially on times that I need a lift of spirit. He doesn’t lie to me, although i know that there are times he’s not telling me everything, but then again, he’s always been honest with what he’s telling me. He cares for me and he’s super sweet. He’s always full of good suprises, small and big! And I’m loving it. Because of all the effort of preparing for the surprise, it makes me feel so special. He’s humble and nice to everyone. He’s also handsome and very charming (which by the way, he doesn’t want to admit!) He always tries to understand me, eventhough at some point, i’m getting out of bounds. A responsible person. He’s helping me to keep my faith to myself and to the Lord. And most of all, he loves me!

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 414 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 58 minutes after post)

He lets me take care of him.
He appreciates the attention i give him.

He loves to wait for me.

He treats me as his best friend.

He always listens to me and i don’t have to pretend that i am happy when i am not.

He explains to me what i need to know. When i ask, he does not feel interrogated, but he takes that as their chance to understand my concerns.

He does not walk away when i am upset.

If he needs some air, he tells me that he will come back. And he always does.But most of the time, he never leaves me crying.

He does not give me any promises at all. He just says it would be irresponsible for him to lose me.

And most of all, he loves me.

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freshwater offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 51 minutes after post)

He makes me smile at the smallest things, when we go for walks he walks on the outside as if to protect me,how he is with our children joke’s around and never cruel our crude. He makes me feel protected and loved. He kisses me every start of the day and end even in between.He is handsome, witty,protective,loving,and much more. He is my saviour.We are in our 20th year of marriage and he still makes my heart flutter.

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 46 minutes after post)

He’s kind to me even when I am crabby and unreasonable.

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IveGottaGrow offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (11 hours, 31 minutes after post)

It’s hard to put words to how I feel for him, but I will list most of what makes me love him.

He finds me to be beautiful inside and out, even when I have a hard time seeing it. He’s always there for me. He has to most random thoughts, and that always makes me smile. He finds the deeper meaning of things and shares that with me. If he’d let me I would stare into his eyes forever. His voice makes me melt. He doesn’t tell me what I want to hear, only the truth. He always knows how to cheer me up. He’s the only person I have ever been able to open up to. He’s my best friend. I can talk to him when I’m in the worst of moods; even if he’s the reason I’m like that. His kisses blow me away. I feel safe when I’m in his arms. He’s protective over me and sometimes jealous, but I love that about him too. He’s the only guy I ever see when we’re out in public. He never takes his eyes off me, even when some beautiful girl walks in. He shares everything with me. If I need space, he gives it without question. He lets me love him, and loves me back just as much.

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Baylie offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 hours, 53 minutes after post)

It’s hard to put love into to words, but this is it to me:
Love is when you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Love is when you can’t see your future without someone.
Love is when there’s inside jokes.
Love is when you get past all the physical stuff.
Love is knowing that you can trust them.
Love is not having to be with someone ever second of the day, but treasuring what time you do have with them.
Love is when you do your best to protect someone from getting hurt.
Love is when you never want to cause someone pain.
Love is when you wish someone the best in life.
Love is being a shoulder to cry on.
Love is leading the way, but knowing when to follow.
Love is listening.
Love is giving.

Love is so much more than any of these things, but anyone who can find it, is one of the luckiest person in the world. Love is complex, and always about give and take, but most people these days just want to take, so true love, is really hard to find.

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pwoin offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

I am with someone who loves the things about me that I love about myself.

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Hi_Sai offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Chicago, IL, US | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 17 hours after post)

Gah! I wouldn’t call it love…

But I like someone very much. :)

Best friend, partner, brother…I don’t really know and I don’t really care! XD ((Meaning no matter what I am to them, as long as I can speak with them I’m happy!))

But what I love about this person is that they are caring and make me feel good about myself. I relate so much to this person in a way that I don’t with any one else. Talking to them makes me happy! Even if they go off and get a girlfriend I really wouldn’t mind! XD

I feel blessed just having had the…the honor of meeting this guy. And it’s selfish of me maintaining ANY relationship with him because I KNOW that he’s better for me than I am for him! XD

Ah…To sum it up. I like a guy because he makes me feel wanted. Like I have a purpose.

I was kinda just drifting along for a while before he came and picked me up! I’m so thankful to God that I met him. :)

Eh…Oh wait! I don’t think that answered the question! @_@ (Ah!! Sorry!! Sorry!!!)

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