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Tell her that you won’t wait forever but give the girl some time. Things may never hapen between them but they could still be friends or have some expectancy[sp?] of how the other might react. She might just be scared of hurting a friend. HE does need to know thugh, and I know where you’re coming from.

If all else fails you could trick her/ask her for his number and maybe do it for her.

corycrypti wrote:
If all else fails you could trick her/ask her for his number and maybe do it for her.

Don’t under any circumstances do that. It has the potential to get very ugly indeed.

I was in a situation like this a couple of years back, and ended up getting my heart smashed when she decided to get back with her ex. You need to be prepared for that kind of pain if things do go wrong. Having said that, I don’t regret getting involved with this girl, and I’m not saying you should break things off either. Be careful, but stick to your guns. I really hope this works out for you :)

dont get involved if she is still with this other guy.they have a hisory longer thatn you do and she could end up staying with him.Hopefully she does break up with him but if not tell her you don’t wana be the other guy and give her space and time to decide who and what she really wants.

hope she does pick you.ya seem lik a really nice guy and seem to be really into her.
Just on’t let her break your heart.

don’t you think that you are so precious to get involved in such a confusing relationship ?

She is still in love with her ex so get yourself out before you get hurt really bad .

i agree with nextstar ad neesy but again the point is that you claimed that she likes you and always with the big simle when she see you,, thats good for hanging on and waitng ,its kinda worthed,,

I think you should wait a little longer but not too long to see if she’s comletely ended it and if not wait untill she does and if nothing happens it seams kind of obvious she wants him more than you because she hasn’t gotten over him

please do not break it of if she doesnt say anything to her ex. it takes time to mend a brocken heart or to fall out of love with someone you know. you could be the one to do that. hang in there. it is hard to find someone special in this world, dont waste this gift of love. wouldnt it be hard for you too if you had to let her go.
think about it. if you think you cant hold on any longer just talk to her and try to understand what she is feeling.
(like i said you could be her knightin shining armor in her time of pain (which would be right now):)

Sounds like the best plan to me - you’re only setting yourself up for a fall any other way…

zeebot wrote:
i live on an island and we have to catch the fery to the city. we both came back to my town on the same boat and i saw him with her. she didn’t see me. i had a mix of wanting to vomit seeing them together and smacking the guy in the face, with all my friends telling me that was the best option. im choosing to let her have this weekend to end it if she doesnt im going to end us.

any more opinions?

uhhhh…
dont give up on her that easily. it was probably just a friendly get together. something tells me that she wouldnt do anything to hurt u.
give her a little bit more time to end it with her ex.
plz dont give up.:)

zeebot wrote:
uhhhh…
dont give up on her that easily. it was probably just a friendly get together. something tells me that she wouldnt do anything to hurt u.
give her a little bit more time to end it with her ex.
plz dont give up.:)

they were kissing and he had his arm wrapped around me but considering im really the other guy its not my place to do anything. you dont know how **** it feels knowing that right now she is with him when she should be with me. i know she doesnt want to hurt me but in the end she has to do what she thinks is best for her. she has said that she is going to end it with him this weekend and i have my doubts as do all our friends. so after giving her the time she has asked for and having the perfect oppotunity to end it and saying she will. if she doesnt then doesnt it just show that she doesnt want me that this other guy is more important[/quote]

in that case. give her the weekend to break it off. if she doesnt, she obviously doesnt appreciate you. you deserve someone who will:)

zeebot wrote:
thanks i just wantted one person to say what im doing is the right thing.

no problem.
you deserve a little truth with the way things are going for you.
shout out to me if you need to talk aout it more:)
good luck(i am rooting for you)

Tell her you’ll wait for her, but until she’s cleaned things up with her ex, you can’t be with her.

what happened? did she choose to stay wit the ex? im sorry i thought it was gona work out for u guys………:(

it’s tough but its beeta dat t happened sonner rather thatn later because u wld have been hurt worst…

corycryptik wrote:
Tell her that you won’t wait forever but give the girl some time. Things may never hapen between them but they could still be friends or have some expectancy[sp?] of how the other might react. She might just be scared of hurting a friend. HE does need to know thugh, and I know where you’re coming from.

If all else fails you could trick her/ask her for his number and maybe do it for her.

Well tricking ppl for numbers, i know this girl and she would stop talking to zeebo, as for “she might be scared of hurting her friend”, yes this is true! But what is she doing to zeebo? I dont think he feels any better………..

look its not easy 2 get over ur ex so give her room 2. don’t push her away. but now i realize that my comment is little late but dont give her an ultimatum coz she needs time. i understand u dont exactly have all the time in the world so u need 2 make a decision. do u love her enough 2 wait for her or 2 let go i guess and let her deal with this issue (which u have already done so i guess u do)

Just so you all know there over and she’s back with her ex…