happiness help: Its my Exs 18th to day August 21st shes 18 do i call her to say

Kosh

Its my Exs 18th to day August 21st shes 18 do i call

her to say happy b-day or do i just drive my self insane with the what if’s and how comes.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

lol been there done that got the scars, cried the tears. here comes the pain!!!

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Anonymous #
3 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Yeah, it depends on the relationship. I’d o it just to show her that you haven’t forgotten, maybe she’s half-heartedly or maybe completely expecting you to. If you’re friends then of course, but if you haven’t talked to her since the break up, make this your chance to break that ice and show her you still want to be a her friend at the least.

If f course thats true, but you wouldn’t be driving yourself crazy if you hated her now would you?

I’m for it. Don’t go and call at midnight, but don’t call her first thing in the morning either. Call her a little passed noon.

:)
Goodluck and best of wishes on your future girlfriend-again or friend.

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Jerry 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Definately call her. Now matter how the feeling of the relationship at this point in time, you will either be a really nice guy, or the better man for doing it.

Either way, she should feel a little warmer and fuzzier.

DO IT, RING HER

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

yes i do hate her she broke my heart, but i cant of left on bad terms and other **** like but. i Dont know you are right but i feel like a *** when i think about calling her.
i dont want to be nice to her but i want her to now i still care and always will but shes a quite stuck up goth and im mummys boy!! but ive just resently learnt to build the wall of death around me, which in turn is turning me into what i dispise most a AA,Drug & and a user of wimen.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Jerry_Man wrote:
Definately call her. Now matter how the feeling of the relationship at this point in time, you will either be a really nice guy, or the better man for doing it.Either way, she should feel a little warmer and fuzzier.DO IT, RING HER

forgotten what warm and fuzzyu feals like ( wow maybe i do get deppressed even though im OTT )

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Dorian Valentine 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Maybe just texting her would be a better idea Kosh…

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

lol got no credit will have to go round to my mums hotel to use phone but ide rather sit here and write **** to avoid it i guess + i got a data base to finish a book to write and some poetry to compile. also need to do a job search.

how do you close posts this is winding me up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dorian Valentine 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

There should be an option up near the “edit post” bit at the bottom of your post.

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Dub420 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

just forget about it dude if she broke your heart once she’ll do it again, trust me. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

And how does “stuck-up goth” even work? lol.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

lol im cool now this site actually helps ppl thats well cool!! i might call here but im going to wait a until next week,let my blood boil, then ill probaly do a decent job search and find a 9 - 5 Job = Bussy mind = No Thinking = Crazy Little Kosh

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Jerry 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

No, call her. It’s just the right thing to do. If you ended the relationship then she’ll feel like you’re really still caring about her as a person.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

i dont want to do the right thing but i know it is jerry_Man !!!

i should call her up at 3:00 when shes pissed and rant at here that way ive spoiled her b-days like she spoilted my 21st and dumped me in glasdomburry !!!

Jamie is starting to leave the Building ( Kosh is creeping his way bck in )

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

wooohaaaaaa !!!!!!!!

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Jerry 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

Well, glasdomburry does sound like a bit of a terrible place. But don’t be resentful. This is like the most mature sign you could give that you’ve moved on in your life is that you’re in a place in your life that you can comfortably ring her up without hard feelings. Even if your just hinding the hard feelings. She’ll feel better about it, and so will you. Fake it till you make it plays a big part.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

na man okay im 22

Multiblepersonality Disorder / mild Schitsophinia = will never heart a living thing

Kosh - Lord of Darkness Death and Revenge — Represented by the Black Hooded Figure that most ppl have seen - Controls the legion of the subliminal mind - I think hard enough i could comit the perfect Crime !!!

Michael — Deppressed — cries all the time needs love and effection craves human contact - stuck in the past

James — Traped in the middle quite thinker - wants to better ones self.

Dragon — Party - - Party — Drugs — Alchol — keep ur wimen locked away because he will do what ever he can to get the galz

Harris — Mr Dont Give a ****

My x

Amy quite thinker stuck in the past of pain, paranoid mild Schitsophinia belives the key to power is to controlle throw silence and giving into the demands of others around her = meaning when she has a few shell do what ever shes told because she cant say no - that way you feal in her dept. ( The submissive is the controller )

Thief - Kosh’s Play Buddy — Violent temperment enjoys fighting strealing crush souls tormenting people, drugs - drink - ECT — Plays headgames - and will get what she wants at any cost.

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Jerry 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

And what exactly then? Just ring the girl on her birthday. It’s the nice thing to do. One of you can do it, I don’t care who, just call the poor gal.

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

call her names ?

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

okay fú******* hell man ill do it

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Jerry 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Good, thankyou

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Kosh 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (21 hours, 57 minutes after post)

well called her up she’s well depressed and im planning on going to see her thank you guys,

Lots Of Love M.J.Harris

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