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Iv once again put across a bad picture of myself, I

am not a bad person & hav tried too help people iv even got in2 relationships for that reason & didnt realise till it was 2 late, So that jus makes me ****** up a bit like most other people, My ex isnt evil she isnt a bad mother she hurt me i hurt her, Thats how it went i wouldn’t turn bak the clocks bcoz i wouldn’t hav my son, but i would hav done things differently, wot them things r? well thats for me 2 know i just want people who read this an may know me or are basing ther views of me on these posts i have put that i am not an evil person, hard 2 live with yes, if u hav read all my posts lol then **** u must b bored lol,
anyway i will leave you with this question do u blieve that a person is a product of there environment as a youth, or they hav a blank sheet ahead of them with which 2 dictate how there life will go?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Interesting this isn’t even a nature vs nurture question it’s just nurture vs self. I really think it comes down to self. Self being a combination of both your genes and how you grew up, where you were raised. Of course it’s up to you to make the decisions that effect your life in big ways, no way your environment could decide that for you!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

If your parents are educated you are more likely to be educated.
If your parents drink/take drugs you are also more at risk of doing the same.
But once you leave home it’s all about the choices you make.
You can choose to work and improve your surroundings.
You can choose to make a family totally different to your own.
At some stage you have to stop blaming the past (not saying you do) and get on with making your own future - Mas

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bec. offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 124 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

people shouldnt judge from what they read and or hear they should just get to know you for who you are

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Vyki offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

You are a book that has been written but now only you can write the rest xx

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angel♥ offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 871 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

i agree with bec. people shouldnt judge you from what you write. they dont know you in person, so they dont know what your truley like.

as for the question at the end i think that it depends on the person. most of the time if you were for example abused as a kid you grow up against it..
but i think that some things stay with you forever. so it kinda differs with each person.
i think that most of the time you can write your future yourself, plan out the main things. but circumstances change so thats not always possible.
so basically what im saying is that its hard to change,but it IS possible to make your future how you want it… sorry if that didnt make sense lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

angel it did make sense thanks chick hope you ok?? xx

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