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Do you have to confirm who you are?

What i mean is…..
I am a 15 year old girl, from Newcastle, Uk

i mean do you have to say, yes am gay or yes am bisexual.
Before i came out as bi people were saying, “You will have to make a choice soon”
Why??
Yes i come out as bi but is it really necessary to brand yourself?

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Anonymous #
4 years, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

you be whoever you want to be

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Anonymous #
4 years, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

But do you have to tell other people who you are?

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Anonymous #
4 years, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

its your perogative if you feel like telling them then yes

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Anonymous #
4 years, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

thank you.
my friend has been saying i have to tell people i am bi but i really wana keep it 2 my self

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pipablundel offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

no you dont im 23 me and my partner swing with couples but i class my self as straight some may class me as bi its what ever you want to be hun if you like a bit of both good on ya for knowing what you want at that age. you tell your friend its none of her business what you are so but out

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4 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

its your life love you do what you think is right dont be forced to do anything you might regrt later on

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Dorian offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

You don’t have to tell them anything - “gay” “straight” and “bi” are just labels people like to use to make themselves feel more comfortable. Personally I don’t bother with them.

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