friends help: I soo worried about my best friend - Help.com

talk to her and say its serious or maybe tell a adult or her parents

I can’t think of any good reason an older guy would ask for a 13 yr old’s phone number. I certainly wouldn’t, not in my job & not in my private life. I’m not saying he’s deffinatly an older guy but you never know with the internet, I could pretend to be 13, 60 or a professor - anything I want. You can’t hold yourself responsible for your friend but if you should deffinatly warn her and if it gets anything like serious or you’re too worried tell her parents or maybe even the cops. Don’t feel guilty for taking action, because she has put you in this impossible position/ All you can do is what you think is right and in her best interests. Hopefully though he’s a 13 yr old who’s just as naive as her.

chat to her and explain the danger . .. . failing that maybe persuade her into letting u here what he says and then u can maybe make a judgement on him urself.

You should tell someone who has some authority over her. Yes she might hate you, but she is in a lot of danger, and not just to herself. If the guy knows her then soon he might know about her close friends and family. If anything ever happens to her because of this guy, you might feel guilty because u could have prevented it by telling someone.

yeah i think you should be be carefull how u come acrosss with him

Try to save her once by doing what other say here. Explain her the situation and try to pursuade her to concentrate on other things now since she is only 13. If still she doesn’t understand….go to someone adult who can command her.

Beyond that….I recommed you cannot do much.