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you too need to have a seriours talk

go and see a consler then or get someone he will listen to

you could just tell him that its really bothering you and that you need to talk about it or you’re going to have to leave him. if he was ignoring the first part, the “leaving you” part should get his attention. i dont think you should leave him or argue, just try to get along, compromise, sacrifice, and all that junk. thats what they say makes a good relationship.

you need to make it clear to him that you will either have a serious conversation with him, or he’s history.

sorry but this maybe was your mistake fromthe start cuz you made the choice to get married of this person. So its a real now but why you dont recheck the source of your problemm with him this is if you just want to have your life with him if you dont just leave him and look for th siutable person for you to move on and start again fresh (LIFE COMES ONCE)

tell him what youre thinking. tell him if you dont get help youll file for divorce. if he is serious about you then he will go and see someone with you. if he doesnt care then you know what you have to do.

Let’s face it, you picked the loser. I don’t think he gradually turned into a mean-spirited jerk overnight–he was always that way. For some reason now it’s bothering you?

angelkerr6 wrote:
he won’t go see any one,he says that he is all for it, but then when i make an appointment be backs out

You want to work it out, he seems to not give a f’…what an emotional rollercoaster, eh?

Dont know details nor background, nor ages, nor time together, nor how long has this been goin’ on, nor if ya’ sleeping in the same bed after arguments, nor if there are children involved etc…,
So all I can suggest is to maybe physically separate from each other (space) and think things over. ‘Cause I dont think you know if you can really divorce him either.

angelkerr6 wrote:
my mistake from the start? why don’t you get some background info first. Maybe things have changed since we got married. maybe we have a lot more stress on us now. if you are going to attempt to give advice, don’t give it blindly!

Hello poster, you said right. You would not marry this guy if you knew he could be this insensitive!

Now that he is acting silly, i think you need to get away from him. Are there kids involved? Do you have relatives or family to run to for now?

It is not a mistake to marry a person. You would get to know the real them when you live with them.