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Whose group of friends should I choose?

I had these three group of friends, for which I am torn to which group should I stick to. Whom should I hang-out the more?

(a) We were friends since the start of first year of high school, but at this time a year passed, I was still having difficulty with them especially because of their different attitudes, and sometimes i feel so alone even though when I’m with them. And I feel sorry if I break with these group because we are just having our first year together.

(b) These people have been my friends these start of the school year but I already feel the warmth in their group when I’m with them. I feel special with them and we have so much fun together.

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(c) These group were my friends since grade school, yet I already tested the true essence of friendship together. I’m not sure if this friendship will remain the same because we already parted different ways, different schools, sections.

Whom should I choose?

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Moo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Group b definitely!
It sounds as though they make you happy, and thats SO important to have in a group of friends! And going through school its great to have people you can chill out with and just generally have fun with.
Youve known the other groups of people for longer, but it wont be fun to hang out with people that dont make you feel comfortable.
Try and stay kinda close to the other groups, even if you dont nesessarily hang out with them all the time. Its good to have a wide mix of friends!

Amethysteria offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Get to know Group B more. You’ve had your share of the other two. Start something new that feels great and you’ll have gotten to know just about everyone!

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xNA offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Clearly group B are the most sensible choice. You don’t want to continue feeling lonely with Group A and with Group C you would be taking a risk because it sounds like it might not last.

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Florimouse offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

b AND c, why not both?

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forsakentenshi offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
BD | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 hours, 23 minutes after post)

gropu B i guess would be the better choice for you, especially if you feel special with them!

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