friends help: I cant tell if its all in my head. - Help.com

she said she doesnt like her, either do something to sweep her of her feet so she relizes what she will miss out on or move on.

Well how long have you seen or known her like through high school or collage style either way pull something big out to show her that she could be missing on a lifetime changing event.

Maybe she just needs time, girls tend to be more shy about that kind of thing than boys. Be yourself and try to get to know her and maybe she’ll tell you how she feels. Don’t worry too much if she doesn’t like you though, at least she’s still your friend.

After you confessed to her, she’s not shying away or avoiding you, is she?

If she is, then it’s because she’s afraid and wonders if things will ever be the same again. Knowing your feelings for her makes situations awkward and tense. I hope she doesn’t feel this way though.

If she isn’t avoiding you, then it’s best to keep the friendship you have with her for now. At least, you know that you’re halfway there. If it’s knowledge about you that she seeks, tell her what she wants to know. She may find something more to who you are and begin to feel the same.

And it’s always hard trying to figure out if someone likes you or now. The smiles that she smiles and the looks that she gives you always seem as if something else is there. Everything ordinary about her means so much more to you, but that’s just a part of being love.

Hmm… from your third sentence I am guessing she just would like to be friends. Usually when I tell someone I like them, but just not ‘like that’ it means I would like a friendship, but have no romantic inclination toward them. I have had some guys try to continue to pursue something more, but I have always appreciated it more when they realized I meant what I said and still remained friends rather than pushing for feelings I could not reciprocate. I have been on the other side of it too and I try to remain friends, but keep my distance if I am still interested or hoping for more. Keep your eyes open to other possibilities and someone who does like you ‘like that’! Its much nicer to spend time with someone who shares your love and interests than to try and be with someone who can’t.

firstly You NEVER EVER EVEREVERVERVEVRVEVRVEVRVERVR tell a woman how you feel if you haven’t been on at least a date secondly grow a pair you are a man. Get on with your live this chick doesn’t want you then thats fine because there is somebody who is standing next tho her that does want you.

think about it in her shoes. what if some average chick you barely know confessed her love to you wht would you think, Little crazy huh.