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My name is michael cabral Jr.

I’m 18 and this year…wel about a month ago my girlfreind . who I was gpoing to ask to be my wife. passed away and I don’t think I can go on with her in my life… she ment the world to me and now shes gone… I can’t sleep I hear her voice an I shee her when I close my eyes…halp me plz

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Chickens offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Well first off im terribly sorry about your loss, and that time heals all wounds, if you feel like you can have nobody but her just wait, i will get better

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Max offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 151 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Sorry to hear that. Do you have anybody with you for support?

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heather* offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

That’s terrible. But she wouldn’t want you to hurt yourself or be upset for too long, she loved you. I’m very sorry this happened to you, and I hope things will get better for you.

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Help me with: Does anyone else know how it feels to be troubled about this every day and every night?
SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

On the plus side, you are still very young, and although it might take a few years to get over it, there is plenty of time left…

Think on what she would want - would she want to to continue on, and honor her memory, or would she prefer you to pine away and screw up your life?

We all have grief in our lives, and admittedly thats a really really hard one to cope with - live for her memory, and although you will never forget her, you will learn to live without her

you have my sincere sympathy - i hope you can try to raise each day with a smile - a smile for what she had given you :)

right now, spend time with familly and freinds - they will help you

good luck

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babyboycabra offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

no…I’m alone

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (45 minutes after post)

no family?

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heather* offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Do you have any good friends you could talk to to cheer you up?

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Help me with: Does anyone else know how it feels to be troubled about this every day and every night?
felox---4de offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

take it easy coz its God’s plan look for another flower

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1 year, 3 months ago (6 hours, 40 minutes after post)

It takes at least a year to start normalizing out after losing someone dear. Read up on the five stages of grieving by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and it may help you understand the stages of grief.

You may be a comfort to her family and her family may be a comfort to you.

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