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I need some honest opinions. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!!

I need some honest opinions. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me

Help! Please give me some more opinions!! I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me

Whats my girlfriend mean? Please give me some more opinions!! I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me

My girlfriend says she needs some alone time!I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that it is the 3-4th day apart, seems like eternity. I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me

My girlfriend says she needs some alone time!I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that today is the 5th day apart, with no contact at all. seems like eternity. I left her a quick voice mail telling her im here if she would like to talk, i understand what ive done and am truely sorry and i miss her. I sent one email letting her know how i feel and that its ok how she feels but said i do believe that we should at least talk briefly at some point and express our true thoughts. Still she has responded to nothing and i’m getting frustrated and also feel that after five days, she wont even say a word to me that i feel she is scared to tell me she is done. Yet she has not asked for me to return her clothes to her or anything. Complete silence. I dont get that at all in anyway. Just seems the worst is ahead. Sad because we were so close and how is it that easy for her to be able to not even acknoledge me at all after 5 days of silence beyond a few appologetic text i sent to her. IS THIS NORMAL???? HELP ME SOMEONE PLEASE. Do I wait? How much longer? Should I call again? Should I show up at her place with flowers and appologize again in person in a few days ??????? I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me.

My girlfriend says she needs some alone time!I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months, we are both in our early 30’s. I have a 6 year old she has a 3, 6 and 9 year old. We started out slow, I took everything in small steps so that I would not fall in to deep. She began after 4 months to tell me she wants more affection like kisses before bed time, when i leave to the store, etc. I did that for her and many other things. She did however repeatedly ask me to stop doing stupid little things like acting like a kid in public(yelling out mommy or just screwing around), she always said please can’t u just be normal(like dont out of the blue say things like “u want me” sex terms)and i continued to do these stupid things here and there and knit pick her when it was that time of the month, not purposely i just thought she knew i was joking. She even in time begged me not to do that crap cause she fears she will get REALLY angry. And i just did not listen to it even when she was begging me to not do it anymore even if it was once a week. I was falling in love with her by now, taking her for granted that she really liked me cause she said that often and was always so nice to me. We after 3 months were always together ecept for when at work she got me to start staying at her house when she was not at mine, sex was great, we did everything together. But 4 days ago she woke me up in the morning, after already being frustrated from the past weekend because i acted dumb at the store, i got up and walked to her and said, they make pills for that. Cause i knew she just started that time of the month and she is very very testy when that comes. I dont know why i did that, guess i’m an ***. Problem is with all her little needs that i gave into i feel in love and did not stop doing the stupid little things that drove her to the limit. I took her to work, she gave me a quick kiss, told her we would take the kids to amusement park on the weekend and 4 hours later she sends a text that she wants to do the amusement park some other time and right now needs some alone time. My heart dropped and the life was ripped out of me, i’m an idiot because she begged me over months to stop with the stupid comments and i did not and drove her to this point. Never thought it would actually happen, we were so close!!. I text her the next day looking for answers to understand, tols her to not drag me around and that if this ment she is done with me to just say it. she said i never said anything about being done and i said why time alone then she said i like alone time sometimes and time alone with my kids etc, and told me she had begged me to stop and i did not. Out of heatache i asked a few more questions trying to get her to let me come talk to her and she did not budge, said what dont u understand about i just need some time alone. Again i said so u are done the right with me. She still very angrily at this point said no i am not just need alone time. i sent flowers she said buying me things wont change this right now, i told her how much i care and to please talk to me, totally being a little kid about it which i never do but she had got me to fall for her. she still even at boiling point said i like being with you but i need some alone time. I then stopped all communication. We have clothes and other things at each others houses, she has not requested any of that after 5 days now. so i sent one little text saying i was here to talk when she was ready and if she needed anything im here for her i said i miss her and understand what ive done. one day later she has still not responded. TIME how long is that? What do i do? What should i say. I don’t want to loose her, she is a great woman!! I begged her to tell me she was done with me and she would not do it. But yet now that she has not said anything after 3 days of no communication, i am lost. Maybe i am so scared that i need an answer. Yet she has not asked for her things back maybe she does not care about them. Man am i confused, cause we were really close maybe to close to quick but she asked for all the affection. On top of that we always told each other i like u A LOT. and the day after she said i need time when i tried to get answers from her i knew cause the pain that i was falling in love and i tiold her that. Right or wrong i told her the truth and i had the feeling that WORD LOVE might have worried her a bit. I told her you asked for all the affection aginst my wishes, she asked for all my time cause she wanted me sleeping with her, etc and then i goin to act a little weird about the word love?? I told her love to me means caring deeply but must mean somethin else to her beyond her telling me she likes me a lot all the time, etc. So again i asked her to be done with me if this time alone means that and she still said no no!! She said damit what don’t u understand about alone time. So after all that today is the 5th day apart, with no contact at all. seems like eternity. I left her a quick voice mail telling her im here if she would like to talk, i understand what ive done and am truely sorry and i miss her. I sent one email letting her know how i feel and that its ok how she feels but said i do believe that we should at least talk briefly at some point and express our true thoughts. Still she has responded to nothing and i’m getting frustrated and also feel that after five days, she wont even say a word to me that i feel she is scared to tell me she is done. Yet she has not asked for me to return her clothes to her or anything. Complete silence. I dont get that at all in anyway. Just seems the worst is ahead. Sad because we were so close and how is it that easy for her to be able to not even acknoledge me at all after 5 days of silence beyond a few appologetic text i sent to her. IS THIS NORMAL???? HELP ME SOMEONE PLEASE. Do I wait? How much longer? Should I call again? Should I show up at her place with flowers and appologize again in person in a few days ??????? I don’t want to lose her and feel that her not repling after 3 days of alone time means the worse or maybe thats not enough time for her so her not replying means need more time. i did send a text saying sorry and an email explaining how I feel and acknowloging my wrongs and said if she wants to talk I am here. I trust her 100% as a girl that would tell me she is done if she is yet I also think that the worst lies ahead like her just never answering again, and not even asking for her things back. maybe cause my bad past. I really need ur help here big time!!!!!!! Please be honest and read my little story fully. This means a lot to me.