friends help: Women don’t like me. - Help.com

Weird is the new normal.

Well if it makes you feel any better, guys don’t like me! :)

I’m a girl and I have no idea what a coil is o.0

If you feel that you’re weird, you probably act weird just out of self-conscienceness. Even though you clearly have a lot of confidence about some aspects of yourself, try faking even more confidence when you’re around people. When I say this, I mean–start with acting like you don’t care so much about what others think of you. You probably still will feel nervous and uncomfortable, but others might not think you truly feel this way, and find you more approachable.

What you need to do is find some weird women :D Personally, I prefer guys that are a little abnormal. Normal is boring :P

somsom wrote:
the copper coil to stop having babies, you must know of it

You mean an IUD? They’re not coil-shaped anymore, just so you know ;)

somsom wrote:
the copper coil to stop having babies, you must know of it

…..what? Copper? In ME? o.0

you’re unique and not weird

My pediatrician told my mother that I was an odd child. It never went away. your post sounded like something that I would write about myself- only I wouldn’t put that women don’t like me… What kind of books do you read?

JesusMurphy wrote:

somsom wrote:
the copper coil to stop having babies, you must know of it

…..what? Copper? In ME? o.0

The copper coil is basicly a contreception device that fits inside the uterus - the copper (and other additives!) means that when the egg is fertilzed, it then seeks to attach itself to the lining, and the coil prevents it… The copper coil unfortunately only has a 70% effectiveness - there is another more effective one however…

As for the opening poster, I’m also incredibly weird - but its definately the way to be! - and although i don’t get a massive amount of romantic interest from the ladies, i do could a quite large number of them as good freinds - you create… a identity being odd, and as long as you aren’t offensive, then all you do is stand out, and as time goes along, you really do learn interesting things! - enjoy the fact you are different!

After all, the other choice is to be the same as everyone else - which of course you can train yourself to be! - learn smalltalk, go clubbing and pubbing every night, work hours on a job you dislike and do a sub-standard job etc etc…

virgin_queen wrote:
If you feel that you’re weird, you probably act weird just out of self-conscienceness. Even though you clearly have a lot of confidence about some aspects of yourself, try faking even more confidence when you’re around people. When I say this, I mean–start with acting like you don’t care so much about what others think of you. You probably still will feel nervous and uncomfortable, but others might not think you truly feel this way, and find you more approachable.

this is good advice :)

dazmo wrote:
youre not weird.
some people ahve no personality, no ambitions, no hobbies, nothing to seperate them from being animals except the ability to understand television or do drugs.
you arent one of those bums.
so consider yourself lucky that “women” dont like you, because the best ones will.

as is this

i love the people here :)

Well a guy told me before that people don’t like him. I believed it. LOL

But weeks later i have found him really attractive. And what’s next i fell inlove! lol

im weird. and i love it. its called individuality, whats the defintion of normal and weird, be who you are and dont worry if its weird or normal.

Tell me more. :)

More of these experiences. The more detail, the better I can help you. :)

I’ll sit through this for hours if that’s what it’ll take to help you.

Ah!! This is a tough cookie! DX

Well for one get some confidence in yourself! D:
It doesn’t matter if you think it seems cocky. At least not now.

Try and relax around women. We can sense your fear! xD

You are clean right? You smell good? I know I like guys who smell good. :)

Amber is a dumb***. Ignore her respectably.

Have you ever told a woman that she looked “Beautiful today. As always.” That line would work on me!

And what exactly are these strange things you’re in to?

I’m the wrong person to be helping you with this. :(

I’m sorry. I’m inviting people who can help you better than I can. :)

Well you are a bit of an @55…

But seriously I’m not sure how to help you with this problem.

why so many removed posts? what happened?