life help: not only did i ruin my life, i ruined someone else’s too - Help.com

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We need more info on this please tel us more.

Oh yes, I’m living proof of that..at the moment, it seems hopeless, but things will work out. They did with me. My ex was gambling behind my back and ruined me…but, we both have recovered. DO NOT GIVE UP, PLEASE!

there is always something left.

There is never anything left. There is so much to live for. I’m sure what you did isn’t the worse thing on earth. yes it probably is at this very moment and you feel like there is nothing left to go on. But there is so much. This person might be mad at you and there might be a lot of hate going around but I’m pretty sure later on after they calm down…it won’t be so bad. Things will be better. I promise to you. Hope everything gets better. Sorry I can’t help much…there isn’t much to go off of.

It may seem hopeless, but its not. As long as you have a dream you have hope. Most of us here I believe are living proof, I am sure. I have been at this point, its tough to turn it around, but with a strong head on your shoulders, and a sure heart, anything is possible.

When you feel as if there is nothing left for you, the thing to do is to find something else that you want to do in life. If you mess up, the thing not to do is to give up and settle for what you have now. If there is something that you really want to do, then keep on doing it no matter how many times you mess it up, your only a real quitter if you stop trying. If you can’t figure out how to do something, then try another way of doing it.

As for the other person, this is for if you didn’t try to mess their life up; Don’t worry about it. If you had the best of intentions then there is no harm done. You shouldn’t let one unintentional failure to bring you down. Have you appologized to the person that you wronged? If you did and if they don’t forgivve you, then there isn’t any more that you can do, you did your part in seeking repentance and there’s not much else that you can do. If you really want , you can try to help that person if they still want help from you, thats also a good idea, but if they don’t want any help, then it’s good just to give them space.