Love help: I am in love with a guy n i’ve been in relatinship for more than 2 years. - Help.com

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I am in love with a guy n i’ve been in relatinship for more than 2 years.

I told my parents about him but they did’nt want me to marry him as he lives in another city and has no stable income and not tht much educated and is simple looking. These things dont matter to me until n unless he is sincere to me and he is a sensible and mature guy. and as i dont believe in arrange marriage i dont want to leave him. but my parents are not happy with my decision and they have left everything on me. but i’m confused whether i should marry the guy i like or keep my parents happy. i know they are right but what should i do. its hard to leave him. i know it will be really hard for me to leave him. please help me.

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

I would be very careful about marrying somebody who does not have good job prospects. I’m not saying you should ignore your heart exactly, nor am I saying you should always differ to your parents. I just want you to be aware that poverty and constant worry about finances can erode away the good feelings of love. Also, if you have to move away to another city, the distance from family will make these hardships more difficult since you will not have easy access to a support network. Your parents may be showing more wisdom then you realize in not supporting this particular marriage. What country do you live in, by the way?

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