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Im having problems with my boyfriend we been together more then 3 months and we never have anything to talk about.

My mom doesnt let me go out with my friends or him and he is complaining about goin to my house all the time to see me. Another problem is he goes out with his friends and smoke and I dont like that. He is a complete different person from when we started goin out. We argue now and I never get my point across. I feel like Im trippin and its my fault. At this point I dont know what to do if he is worth staying with or if I should walk away from the relationship. Can you please help me out.

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tech455 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Do you like him enough to work and try to restore your realtionship? Or does he want to try and restore it? Maybe you should just sit down and talk about where your headed. I’m probaly not helping but if he dosen’t care than I don’t think you should try and keep it together. A realtionship is a mutual process.

AshleyAnemia. (: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Find out what the problem is… within him.
Find out his habits now, people change.
:) IF you think he’s worth it. As in like really actually trying hard to fix it, stay.

If you think he won’t ever change.
Consider leaving.
I found out that time away MAY cause him to know what he lost, figure out what he needs to work on - and work on those problems.
;) IF you think there is really no solution to this, leave.

*Feel free to send me a shout out also.
^^

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Car01ynbab 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah you right im might try that thanks

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US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Car01ynbab wrote:
Yeah you right im might try that thanks

Anytime.
:)
I’m always open to help you with any problems.

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Car01ynbab 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah Im going to try your advice nd see if it works out with me nd him; because I really want to work things out with him.

AshleyAnemia. (: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

:D
Go for it.

*sigh*
If only someone would “Excellent Reply” some of my replies more often. xDD
I’m trying to be on the site 24/7… sadly. I only have 2.
Ehh.
:) I still have years.

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Car01ynbab 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I just started this today so its all new to me

AshleyAnemia. (: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

lol
:)
I must go now.

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yourea #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

get a new boyfriend
or new parents

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Car01ynbab 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

yeah i wish i could get new parents

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

When you meet the right person you wont have to force a relationship :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (50 minutes after post)

did you tell him how you feel. communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship. trust is a big one as well. but anyways. when me and my ex started goin out, we never really talkd. we never had a serious conversation. you just need to get more comfortable with each other. ask each other questions.

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Car01ynbab 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

like i dont know want to askk or how to start a conversation with him; but like what you said its true we should have trust.

undeveloped 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

heres what you can do. during the whole day, when somethin happens or you think of somthin, write it down, either on paper or your phone. use those things to tlk about. if you thnk of somethin funny that happend or somethin interesting, write it down. if you do somethin thats boring in the day, write it down. you can talk about anything.

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