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im in love w/ my guy best friend and were gonna be on a di (destination imagination) team together alone. well be spending lots of time 2gether and i really wanna tell him how i feel cuz i think he feels the same way, but i dont want it to get in the way of our work. what should i do?

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danbo513 offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

take a chance and tell him. you’ll regret it if you dont cuz you’ll never know.

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*Dougie* offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Just tell him :)

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Can you do something outside of the DI group together??

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1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

yeah we hang out sometimes, but we r definately doin di 2.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I don’t know exactly what Destination Imagination is…?

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Indigo_Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Several options present themselves here.

Option one: tell him how you feel. Regardless of DI. Love is far too important to worry about balsa wood happenings when your heart is on the line. So what if he glues a piece wrong? It’ll just mean he’s thinking about you.

Option two: Wait until you’re done/mostly done with the project, then tell him. Then he has less to mess up, if he even does.

Option Three: Just tell him after everything’s said and done. Then the work thing doesn’t get in the way at all.

Or any combination of the three.

Good Luck!

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I think if it’s supposed to be out in the open (your feelings for him/his feelings for you) it will happen.
Sieze any opportunity you come across!

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Tere offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I think you should tell him. good luck.

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1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i think im gonna tell him. di starts in november so should i tell him b4 di?

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RTJunker offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I say just wait and see how things unfold. As you spend more time with him, it should become clear if he’s interested in you. I’ve found that being somewhat subtle is the best approach. Flirt a little, smile when you see him, sit near him when in the group, not always, not obviously, just friendly. Maybe invite him along on group outings, to see a band, or have coffee, or whatever. If he’s into you, he’ll ask you out, or let you know in some way.

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RTJunker offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I missed the fact that it will just be the two of you in the group, thus the advice should go more like…sit near him, be friendly and warm towards him, casually touch him. If he’s sitting down working on something, come up behind him and put your hand on his shoulder or something to look down at what he’s doing. Just make casual friendly advances, it’s always worked better for me than awkward declarations of love.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

yeah ill probably do that and see if he feels the same way.

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