guy help: How do I start talking to a guy who I have a crush on?

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How do I start talking to a guy who I have a crush on?

He works at this coffee shop I always get my coffee from on and I just don’t know how to start a conversation with him. Usually I just go in and order my coffee and smile and try to make as much eye contact as possible. I don’t think this is going to get his attention, so what should I do?

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dave1971199 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Walk up to him and say,, hi My name is (whatever your names is). let him reply and just talk about where’s he from, what’s like like there and continue from there.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Just..talk to him about something…I dunno, whatever comes out first…

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dave1971199 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

relax and just talk to him. He won’t bite your head off and he probably would have said something already if he wasn’t busy, but say Hi and then let the conversation flow. You will be fine.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Make small talk while getting it. Ask him about how his day is going so far, how he is that morning, etc. Start small. If you ask him how he is, and he replies “tired” then say something like”Oh, you were up late partying, aye?” and he’ll say something like “Yeah, of course!” or maybe “No, I was up late studying”. The possible conversations are endless. Just keep it light and casual, and if he mentions one of those parties he goes to, he might invite you. See where I’m going with this? Just, like i said, don’t throw yourself at him. Just talk . =)

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