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do you mean ‘kill’ literally?
i’m in the exact same situation. i have an abusive boyfriend who i want to break up wit but i’m scared of what may happen. i’ve talked to some people about it and i guess my best advice if this fits your situation is tell someone that you think he may over react like a parent or friends so they can protect you in some way
There is a hotline you can call and tell or you could break up with him in publick with people around and have people around a lot for like the next fue weeks
go with jayden’s advice, my time in that situation has passed. Though I might add guidence counselor and teacher; schools can be unsafe sometimes. (i misread that the first time).
but most importantly tell someone
This is serious. Get help immediately. If you really think he may try to hurt you then call the police or file a restraining order. You could always try this:
“If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.”
Make SURE your family knows before you do this. Tell someone close to you, a friend or relative, about all of your circumstances, concerns, and fears. In the end, if it came right down to it, their vouching for you may become crucial. You can also ask Dear Carolyn at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> and she could provide you with better advice and maybe some other links or numbers of help groups.
If you need someone to talk to then I happily volunteer my time.
Okay, email didn’t work… it’s tellme @ washpost . com. Without the spaces, of course.
Okay, that’s not good. Does he have a violence history? If so, get help fast. There’s something called “Women’s Space” around here. Don’t know if there’s one where you live, but my mother has taken us there before. They have secret locations all over and they help people sort things out in abusive relationships. Do some research though.
ok so i dont really know if i like this guy im going out with but i think i do but the bad thing is that i also like another guy what should i do if i like both these guys? ive been with this guy for a year.
I don’t understand - Who is it you are afraid of? Who is it you want to date?
Is it the same guy? Is it someone else? Please shed some light on your situation.
never mind ill be ok
i am in kind of the same situation. i have a byofriend who i dont like at all anymore but im in love with my best friend. i think the best thing to do is to confront your boyfriend and just tell him the truth. honesty is always the best way to go. think of a well thought out break up and just tell him. i hope my advice helped.
i feel you i am in that same situation. i have distanced myself though i moved back home. He got kinda crazy so i am dating other people on the side but i told him we are not together, sometimes i think he is going to find out and come and kill me. I still keep in contact with him because i wanna make sure we are still on good terms. Its not fair to him but its my life ya know, he probably will kill me i feel it in my bones riddled in my bones
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