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xMelaniexMassacr
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i think i have herpes.

ok.
i had sex with this guy and we used a condom, and i didn’t see any bumps or anything on him.
but it’s been about 2 weeks to this day and i’ve had back pains, bladder pains, headaches and these 2 bumps popped up.
they are really small and i looked at pics of what it should look like on the net and it don’t look like it.
but i’m still scared.
help?

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dani4liverpoo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i no its rely embarssing, but u must go to the doc.
its the only way.

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xMelaniexMassacr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

but i’m only 15.
and i don’t want my mom to find out that i thought i had it if i don’t

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james.sting offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

xMelaniexMassacr wrote:
but i’m only 15.and i don’t want my mom to find out that i thought i had it if i don’t

if you have herpes, she’ll find out eventually, so might as well go check.

you dont even have to tell your mom anything, just be like ‘i need to go to the doctor, its private i’ll tell you when im comforable telling you’

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xMelaniexMassacr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

but the thing is right now she is out of state and it’s only me and my dad.
and my dad is seriously not the person to ask to take me to the doctor.

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vhill169 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

go to the doctor with a friend or something it sounds serious

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xMelaniexMassacr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

ok.
thank you guys.

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james.sting offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

ask your friends mom or something.

less embarassing

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Help me with: yesterday i was just in a car accident (passanger) and i feel like its my fault.
james.sting offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

or ask that guy to take you, so he can find out too.

good luck

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Help me with: yesterday i was just in a car accident (passanger) and i feel like its my fault.
pretty_polly200 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

dude, the only and the best option and solution is to go to a doctor and have a check up..dont worry..because they are there to deal with these problems and give u advise so step into the world of genetology?(is it wat its called..hmmm)

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nurse_rose offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

i dont think it could be herpes cuz u used a condom. if ur really worried u should get the doctor to check it, and it’s confidential so no one will know.

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wallarookille offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

It could be herpes but not likly you should go and get checked out.
heres a list of free clinics that you don’t have to tell anyone about just go in and get tested.
http://yourstdhelp.com/free_clinic_lo…

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adanasil offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (8 months after post)

im havin a problem i think i have it too.dunno what to do

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blue_puc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

im 15 i just got 1 barely noticable bump on my mouth **** me

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