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LOL! My parents are chinese too! First thing they said when I reached my teens was: You’re not dating anyone until you’re at least 25. 25!! I never listened :P

But I do agree, it takes your focus off a lot of things. Relationships take a lot of energy, time, and effort, as well as love. If you have to juggle school, work, family, and friends as well, it can get very tiring, and you’ll find yourself arguing a lot with your partner.

Relationships aren’t bad for teens, just that you’ll have to set your priorities right. Especially as its not likely you’ll end up marrying who you dated before you turn 20, but a career will have to last you a lifetime.

and I have a depressing answer…
“Does that teens really should not be in love with others?” does not make sense..sorry :P

Hey hey, grammar isn’t everything, you know wally :P Plus, I’m sure he’s still learning =O

I’m sure you caught the gist of what was in that question though, don’t pretend you didn’t :P

I got the gist…I just had to say something :P
Well Jackchang, along with grammar you will also learn that your parents are wrong. Teens can love, anyone can really…age doesn’t always matter. You will know when you are in love, then you won’t care what your parents think :]

Yeah, study isn’t everything =) But do try to respect your parents too, tell them you’d like to date this girl you know, etc, that you understand their concerns about school etc, and how you plan to juggle both =)

But you have to realise also that at such an age most “love” that you experience will be “puppy love” or mere “crushes”. Doesn’t mean there isn’t true love, though =O

yep ^^
:]

My friend is on that opinion too, that she must learn and has no time for boyfriends… I think in some part it’s quite right, but what will you do if you really like someone? Do exactly what your heart tells you to do! If you want to know my point of view, I think teenage is best time you’ll ever have and you mustn’t waste it!

i do believ that there is teen love, but it is rare.