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To shy to talk to you.

How can I eliminate my shyness quikly. I want to be able to talk to girls i dont know in school or on the street but cant get past the wall that holds me back. help

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

C:
Hmm.
Well let’s start off with;

1. Gender:
2. Age:
3. Hobbies:
4. What type of person you think you are in General:

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Azimuth offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Something stiff on the rocks should do. Works for me, shaken not stirred…

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xXx-20-Jade-08-xXx offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I see what you mean.

if you cant talk to girls straight off , try smiling at them. if they smile back , you know they like you as a friend. only then can you decide if the next time you see them you say hello or smile again.

Also, another way is to talk online to people like this. without actually realising it, you build a friendship online.

I hope this helps.. and i am here to talk to if you want.

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stone_wolf_09 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

xXx-20-Jade-08-xXx wrote:
I see what you mean.

if you cant talk to girls straight off , try smiling at them. if they smile back , you know they like you as a friend. only then can you decide if the next time you see them you say hello or smile again.

Also, another way is to talk online to people like this. without actually realising it, you build a friendship online.

I hope this helps.. and i am here to talk to if you want.

you are right great advice

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snowmanpo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

thanks that sounds good ill try to do that more often. Its just a bit hard to even look at the girls i like, but i think its more because i feel they think im ugly or somthing.

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snowmanpo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

opps ha so much for anonymous lol

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

snowmanpo wrote:
thanks that sounds good ill try to do that more often. Its just a bit hard to even look at the girls i like, but i think its more because i feel they think im ugly or somthing.

:)
No-one is ugly.
Beauty comes from within the heart.
As for posting anon, it wouldn’t matter.
Most of us don’t judge anyways.

Find that courage within you.
You want her to notice you back right?

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snowmanpo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

of course. I just dont know how to start conversations of continue them.

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

snowmanpo wrote:
of course. I just dont know how to start conversations of continue them.

Then you make the first ‘move’ to get noticed.
I find it nice if I get a note from a guy saying that he like me.
Try that.
:) Try being funny or talk about random things.
There’s this really shy kid I know.
Every morning, I walk up to him…
Me: Hi! How are you _____?
Him: Fine.
Me: Did you wake up on the right side of the bed?
Him: I think. 0.o
Me: I tripped over my at today.
Him: Ohhh.
Me: I felt intimidated by him too. He stared me down.
Him: LOL

;) Try embracing your natural funny.

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

.ashleyyy = wrote:
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snowmanpo wrote:
of course. I just dont know how to start conversations of continue them.
Then you make the first ‘move’ to get noticed.I find it nice if I get a note from a guy saying that he like me.Try that.:) Try being funny or talk about random things.There’s this really shy kid I know.Every morning, I walk up to him…Me: Hi! How are you _____?Him: Fine.Me: Did you wake up on the right side of the bed?Him: I think. 0.oMe: I tripped over my at today.Him: Ohhh.Me: I felt intimidated by him too. He stared me down.Him: LOL;) Try embracing your natural funny.

*at - cat

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snowmanpo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour after post)

lol yeah thats really good and uber funny. thanks

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

snowmanpo wrote:
lol yeah thats really good and uber funny. thanks

Haha.
:) Thanks.
Anytime, really, it was my pleasure.
And True at that… 0.o I did get stared down. ;)

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