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My sister is gone and i’m having a heard time trying not breaking into sobs everytime something reminds me of her…

.and she isin’t dead shes gone to university i know this sounds like something stupid but we are really close and i talk to her about everything and now i don’t know what to do……..

What should i do?

……:aND yes we have msn and the phone but that doesn’t help

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mZ.jAicAhh offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

why..? did you have some sort of fight..?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

No we didn’t its just that i mis her so much already and she’s the one i come to for help so now i don’t know what to do

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

oh sorry I didn’t read it..uhm..you have to lern to let go and find friends that surely are true to you..people like that are hard to find..but if your sister is such a very important person to you..your relationship with each other will give you the strength to surpass the pain you feel..she won’t dissapear as long as you never forget her in your heart..missing her is a burden for you ain’t it..?makes youfeel all depress and sad..but don’t let your sister be the reason for your life to get a little bit down..she is a part of you and always will..so continue your journey..

oh and..what kindof site is this..!? it’s showing different messages..kinda cool but somewhat bothering..it’s okay though..I feel happy here..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Thanks i do have a lot of friends like that but none of them seem to really care i mean i know they care but i can’t get myself to talk

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (42 minutes after post)

that’s good for you to have friends that are true to you..I don’t have honest friends..they’re all fakes..you should reach out you know..? it’s the only way to become open..just let out your feelings..everything will be better..by the way are you the younger sister..??

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 days, 18 hours after post)

Hey my lovely, ive got a similar problem right now.
my boy is moving away to uni soon, miles and miles away from me.
He hasnt even left yet and already im crying at just the mention of his name.
I get paranoid and lonely and so worried about him.

but yours is different.
this is your sister, she cant cheat on you, or forget you, or replace you.
And the bond you have with her is more important than the distance between you.

It helps me when at night, I look up at the stars, and know that he will see the exact same thing i do.
It makes me feel closer to him.

Its a very small world, and shes not gone forever.
Im almost 100% sure that she will visit you, and miss you just as much.
Who knows..you may even move in with her one day.

chin up darling. she’ll never really be gone.x

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