Love help: i recently found out my mum isn’t my real mum.

nurse_rose

i recently found out my mum isn’t my real mum.

i’m 21. i’m confused and shocked. although i love my mum very much, i am looking for the one who gave birth to me. i have no idea where to look, i know which country she lives and who her husband is. pls help me someone.

UPDATE: i have found her email and we are now contacting. i really don’t know what to say but thank u everyone for the help.

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arrowbrother #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

do u hav ur birth certificate?

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i recently found out my mum isn’t my real mum. i’m 21 and although i love my mum very much, i am looking for the one who gave birth to me. i have no idea where to look, i know which country she lives and who her husband is. pls help me someone.

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

yes i have her full name but apparently she has changed it and i don’t know what it is.

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arrowbrother #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

does she hav a social security?

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

probably , is it on the birth certificate?

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arrowbrother #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i believe so

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Communation 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Someone who changes their name will have their old one recorded along side it, since most people who do that are attempting to start a new life, which is seen as suspisious.

For the right amount of money, a private detective could eventually get your answer for you

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

thanks comm and arrow, arrow- do u know a website or somethin i can research this?

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arrowbrother #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

sorry no u can probably go the hospital u were born remember to bring ur birth certificate

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

thank u

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arrowbrother #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

no problem, wish u best of luck if u dont remember ur adopted mum will always lov u

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Do you know why she adopted you?
I mean, why your “real” mom left you?

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gerry51 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

try Family Search.org

gerry51 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Or try family Tree.com

nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

she left me because she was too young and stupid, she regrets it badly now, her and my dad divorced when i was a baby.

gerry, thank you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

rose21 wrote:
she left me because she was too young and stupid, she regrets it badly now, her and my dad divorced when i was a baby.

Are you with your real father?

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gerry51 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Your welcome I went through the same thing when I was your age.

nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

yes i am, he doesnt have her email

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Ok…
But he knows her full name…
That’s more than enough to find anyone nowadays, besides she probably is living in the same place as she used to…
But remember who gave her love as a mother, and who left you behind…as hard as it, it’s the truth…
She might be your real mother, but you don’t really know how she is…

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gerry51 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

You can go on msn go to white pages and in there you can enter her name and it will search for the email address for you.

nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (41 minutes after post)

i intend to meet her and get some answers, i want to see whether i want her to be part of my life or not. in the end my step mum will always be my real mum. thank u

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

rose21 wrote:
i intend to meet her and get some answers, i want to see whether i want her to be part of my life or not. in the end my step mum will always be my real mum. thank u

Yep, just wanted you to know that
btw…
http://www.peoplefinder.com/
for the US–> http://www.zabasearch.com/
for the UK (I think)–> http://www.192.com/search/people.cfm
http://people.yahoo.com/

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (48 minutes after post)

thank you =)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (49 minutes after post)

No problem, I hope they’re useful…
Anyways, if can’t find her with those, just type “people finder” or “find people” on Google…
Glad to help ^_^

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 hours, 16 minutes after post)

if you know her last name you can find her on the phone book

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nurse_rose edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

i recently found out my mum isn’t my real mum. i’m 21. i’m confused and shocked. although i love my mum very much, i am looking for the one who gave birth to me. i have no idea where to look, i know which country she lives and who her husband is. pls help me someone.

Help me with: my parents r splitting up for real.

nextstar 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

I’m so happy that you had a contact with her :D

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srk196 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

Hi my name is sherri god bless you ! i know how you feel & your mom .i had gave up a baby girl and i dont know where to begin to find her she is 21 now .at the time iwas not able to surport her .and i felt like i had gave gods gift to a couple that couldnt have children .but i still would love to beable to find her. could someone direct me in finging her. she was born in hutchinson kansas ! god bless everyone!!

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nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 days, 17 hours after post)

srk196 wrote:
hi my name is sherri god bless you ! i know how you feel & your mom .i had gave up a baby girl and i dont know where to begin to find her she is 21 now .at the time iwas not able to surport her .and i felt like i had gave gods gift to a couple that couldnt have children .but i still would love to beable to find her. could someone direct me in finging her. she was born in hutchinson kansas ! god bless everyone!! sherri

Sorry to hear ur looking for ur child, maybe u should go to the adoption centre, or the people that u used to have the baby adopted.

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* Lisa * 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 days, 18 hours after post)

My mom gave up my sister when she was really young. She would now be about 20 yr old. My mom says she reqrets it, that her family refused to help her an the father was always in jail an she had nowhere to go… How can we find her? We dont know how to go about to bein finding her. thank you in advance for your help…

shiner2 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

I’m so happy you have found your mom’s email address! I wish you the best in your future endevours together! Best wishes!

nurse_rose 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

* Lisa * wrote:
My mom gave up my sister when she was really young. She would now be about 20 yr old. My mom says she reqrets it, that her family refused to help her an the father was always in jail an she had nowhere to go… How can we find her? We dont know how to go about to bein finding her. thank you in advance for your help…

have u tried asking the father for her full name? and look at my post, there are a few links to contacting people in your family. xx

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