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Hey there.

It took me some time to decide to let it out. Here is the deal:
My GF and I started seeing each other little over a year ago. For both of us it was “just a rebound”. Things were not right at all. Then something happened and we totally connected. Anyway we moved in together like two Months ago. During all of this time she was going horse riding with her ex. It did not bother me at all until.
On the weekend of our anniversary (first time we kissed)she decided to go with him horse riding. She did not bother asking me do I want to go. What was the worst thing I had already booked horse ride somewhere else for two of us that same weekend and wanted to surprise her. That day i felt like crap and I told her how I feel, especially due to the fact that he even pays for her rides. There were couple more things that I told her that bothered me. She said that she will not go againg with him. I spoke to couple of my friends and everyone agreed with me , yet they are my friends and of course they are bias. Worse thing is that after that, knowing how much she likes horses, i told her it is ok to go riding with him. I feel if she goes again I will feel the same way and possibly leave. Do you think it is ok what she did? and what do I do now?

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Ex bf should be out of the picture. Period. If you want to go riding with her then do so. Otherwise she should ride solo or with another female only.

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southofhel offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I do not think that she can not go riding with anyone else, but the fact that he even pays for rides is really bothering me.

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