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How do I get over my ex-girlfriend?
I believe I was/am still in love with her. Too make the situation worse we still live together. We have a 2 bedroom apartment so we don’t share a bed anymore. Moving too a new place is out of the question because we are in a foreign country. We were together for 3 years and engaged for 6 months. I feel like my heart is going to explode and death would be an easy option (I’m not suicidal it just hurts). One morning she just woke up and out of the blue said “I don’t love you anymore”. It was only a couple months ago we had a fight (while I was back in the states) and I asked her if I should just stay there. She told me how much she loved me and how she wanted too be with me for the rest of her life. Now she is talking too another guy online and she likes too rub it in my face. She always comes home and tells me about him. I think she says things just too hurt me sometimes (but I don’t know why… she was the one who broke up with me). The other day she told me “she really loved him and had never felt this way before”. She has never even met the guy in real life. She also told me she wanted too have his babies. And then she used the same line she used on me “I love him and I want too spend the rest of my life with him”. After only talking too the guy for 3 days he said he loved her… and she said it back. Now the chat online for 14 hours a day (no joke). I wrote her an email letting her know how much it was hurting me that she kept rubbing it in my face and the next day she added a screen saver too her computer with about 100 pics of him. How do I deal with this situation? Please help
P.s. we work for the same company and live in a corporate apartment moving apart really isn’t an option right now
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