life help: it kinda bothers me when people say want to kill themselves. - Help.com

it kinda bothers me when people say want to kill themselves.

i mean, it’s not like life wont get better. IT ALWAYS DOES but sometimes it takes time, you can’t just expect something good to happen the next day, it doesn’t work that way, i mean, it could, it can start at anytime, any moment but for things to change it needs some time, and you have to put some effort in making that change, you can’t just sit there and wait for that change. just like, you want to become a movie star or whatever, you don’t just sit at home, wait for someone to come to your house one day saying “wanna be in a movie?” no you go out there and do what you can. sure yes i know, life is hard, i’ve gone through a lot, i know a lot of people who have gone through sooo much and they know how to make themselves feel ok and know they will be fine. and yes i know that everyone takes things differently, some are more sensitive than others, there isn’t anything wrong with being upset or depressed but i mean, you don’t have to kill yourself thinking that everything will end. just think about it, if you wanna kill yourself becuase you think you’re letting everyone down, well if you kill yourself, you’ll let the people that love you down, i mean like, say you have a friend that is there for you always, always trying to make you happy and trying to save you, and you still feel unhappy but your friend needs you too because you’re going through stuff together, if you kill yourself, just think about what they feel ya know. by the way, i know this post maybe sounds confusing becuse i just type stuff down letting it out if you understand what i mean thank you :P. but if you right now are reading this and have been thinking about killing yourself lately well. seriously think about this first, is there a friend that has cared about you a lot and has been there for you when you needed it? you wouldn’t wanna leave them, because when they end up in trouble and they need someone, you’ll be strong enough to help them because you’ve gone through **** and you’ll know what advice to give or just letting them know they aren’t alone. if you have no one, well, at least prove it to yourself that you could make it out, i would think you’re a hero. then one day, when you meet someone in need, you could be there hero.last year i just felt like i couldn’t do anything, like my life wasn’t going anywhere, sure i’m still young but also so much was happening, stress, family issues, other… and i thought to myself well i know i’m not alone, and maybe there is someone out there that i could find, online or someone that lives here that i could help out, and we could make it out together. and i have found some people, and when they tell me that i’ve helped them so much, it makes me feel so happy. i really think that when you feel like you have nothing left, to bring yourself back up again, is just help someone that has been at your level, when they tell you how amazing you are for being there for them, it makes you feel so good. i guess all i’m asking for is that, you don’t kill yourself, first think about what you have, and someone out there that could use your help. theres more i wanna write but i can’t think of it right now, maybe i’ll edit this post later, sorry its soooo long D:. but for those who are feeling so low, i wish the best for you and i promise you, if you wait around long enough, and you try to put some effort, you’ll be rewarded :] hang in there

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