Love help: This is the final straw! - Help.com

shes going through a rough time so you gotta understand when she gets pissed, talk with her and explain how you’ll be there to help her and that everything is gonna be ok, take her out, maybe like for walks or something and let her explain everything to you. tell her that everything is gonna be ok, it’s not like she wont be able to see her friend again.

what?

no he said a friend, not a guy… her friend is moving away and she is upset by it

The truth is she may not realize she is pushing you away. Her acting out is probably caused by a need for attention. If you really do love her (and she loves you) you should sit down with her and have a talk … most of the time girls just need someone too talk too. She probably wants too talk too you but she is scared to put her problems on you so she bottles them up. Let her know you want too help her, and show her your not the enemy. But be sure too always be on her side when you have the discussion… don’t side with her friend or mom (even if you think she is wrong) your just there to listen and agree. Because that’s what she needs.

P.S. Also flowers help… even if a girl says she dosen’t like them or they are not necessary that’s code for buy me flowers all the time… SERIOUSLY

I agree with the standing up for yourself. But if you love her and she needs a shoulder to cry on. I don’t think now is the time for the discussion about her treating you so badly. Especially if you don’t want to risk loosing her over it. You could always make the sit down a 2 part conversation start by saying “hey honey, I know you’ve been having a hard time with things, and I want to help you with them lets talk. But I also need you to show me more respect, you should discuss your issues with me. Not take them out on me” then let the conversation progress from there.