Love help: Is it embarrassing to be almost 16 and never had a real girlfriend or even kissed a girl? - Help.com

No, I was 16 when I had my first boyfriend and kiss.

i don’t think so, i’m a 16 year old girl and i havent had a boyfriend or kissed a boy. i’ve been kissed but never on the lips D:

I’m almost 18 and never kissed a girl. Your not half bad.

I’ve been kissed on the head by a girl last year, but she was kinda messing with me/kinda liking me, and im a guy so i feel just embarrassed not to have ever had a real girlfriend, and since i want to go with this girl i really like i dont want to be embarrassed. Because when i see her or we’re sitting next to each other i just want to grab her, slide her over to me and kiss her

you are good! dont worry, it doesnt matter when u kiss a girl…unless u r middle aged and still never been kissed

no way! I’m 17 and I’ve never even attempted to do anything more than flirt with a guy! who needs relationships in high school? WAAAAAY too much drama.
especially since you’re a boy….you’d have to deal with difficult, dramatic, emotional teenage girls! :)

I don’t, I’m 14 and I’ve gotten a kiss on the neck, but nothing more.

Lady Hastanonymous wrote:
no way! I’m 17 and I’ve never even attempted to do anything more than flirt with a guy! who needs relationships in high school? WAAAAAY too much drama.
especially since you’re a boy….you’d have to deal with difficult, dramatic, emotional teenage girls! :)

u r totally right! lol
remember, girls suck! (well, w/ a few exceptions…like me, me, me, me, me oh and maybe lady hastanonymous…maybe)

tears_of_rain wrote:

Lady Hastanonymous wrote:
no way! I’m 17 and I’ve never even attempted to do anything more than flirt with a guy! who needs relationships in high school? WAAAAAY too much drama.
especially since you’re a boy….you’d have to deal with difficult, dramatic, emotional teenage girls! :)

u r totally right! lol
remember, girls suck! (well, w/ a few exceptions…like me, me, me, me, me oh and maybe lady hastanonymous…maybe)

haha yeah I think I count as an exception, I don’t get into the whole drama thing lol

Middle school and Highschool were a living hell no joke. lol :D

But I fell in love with a girl last year and this year the same is happening and if we get together i just dont want to mess anything up, i want to be the best i can for her, do anything for her, not matter the cost

Nope I didnt kiss a girl till i was almost 17 and i also handt had a relationship till then.

dont worry, i’ve never kissed a girl either :D lol doesn’t help that i’m not a guy…

On second thought, I am onto my second marriage now…

Well every time i see this girl i just want to pull her across to me get her on my lap and kiss her, or pick her up and kiss her, i just want to kiss her and not be embarrassed, i don’t want her to think down on me cause I’ve never kissed a girl

Anonymous wrote:
Well every time i see this girl i just want to pull her across to me get her on my lap and kiss her, or pick her up and kiss her, i just want to kiss her and not be embarrassed, i don’t want her to think down on me cause I’ve never kissed a girl

Why does everything involve you picking her up? Does she flirt with you at all.

Dude, I’m just going to say go for it. I had the same feeling, and if you wait to long the girl will leave. So take a deep breath lean in and let her finish the rest. If she does, your golden.

I am 16 and I kinda had a boyfriend in 6th grade but I don’t count that and i still haven’t had my first kiss and my friend has had a boyfriend but not a kiss from one but when I tell my friends there like WHAT and i really don’t care i am waiting for the “right guy” and i am thinking about it too a lot because the first time I will kiss a boy I don’t want it to be bad but its ok i thought i might be the whole one because a lot of people are like i’m not even a virgin and there like 12 but its ok just wait until your ready … i don’t think i am ready yet and i dont think i will be for a long time or till i find the right him where i am comfortable around sooooo its ok theres a lot of us…

Because she’s small, i want to get her up to me, and yes she does, she’s “went out with” one of my friend for one day, but then “broke up” with him, He said they’re getting back together in 2 weeks or so, but i know im going to spend time with her and I’m gonna try and ask her out, and even if she says no, i just need to have asked to know if it could’ve been

Anonymous wrote:
Because she’s small, i want to get her up to me, and yes she does, she’s “went out with” one of my friend for one day, but then “broke up” with him, He said they’re getting back together in 2 weeks or so, but i know im going to spend time with her and I’m gonna try and ask her out, and even if she says no, i just need to have asked to know if it could’ve been

you should prolly figure that situation out before you go and kiss her….

i am almost eighteen and i have never kissed a boy

Well here’s the thing, he doesn’t really like her that much, he’s in love with another girl, and mind you so am I, but i have the strong sense that she’s not going back to him because i know her, and i want to be with her.

But like i said even if she says no to going out with me i want to know if it could have been or I’m just dreaming of something that couldn’t be.

It’s okay to not be kissing all over the place. be happy that you aren’t getting diseases! OK but seriously, just wait and when you do get a girlfriend she’ll probably be thinking the same way you are

Well i just see it as i have to do something to get her attention and show her how i feel or ill lose another girl i love