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I can’t keep a friend in school ever, sometimes I feel I will live my life lonely or I’m just there to be picked at… Sometimes my school is “anti-asian” because everyone always joking about me and others in school. Should I just run away and live with my dad? I can’t take this bull**** anymore really. Its been happening to me the last 4 years.

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

It’s annoying but you should just brush that stuff off and ignore it. Just don’t hang around the people that are insulting you. If they keep it up then you should report it.

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Hybrid Theory offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

everyone jokes about other races and even there own race, you shouldn’t let it get to you. as for friends, try hanging out with the other kids like you. other asians if there are any, or the social outcasts.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 hours, 55 minutes after post)

wherever you go lv,it will make no difference its not because of the colour of your skin its life.im sorry to hear its been happening to you for 4yrs but the answer is not to run away but to stand up to these people who are making your life a misery.
i know its easier said than done&your probably really low on self esteem right now .
just remember its life lv.i wish you luck lv x

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (4 days, 2 hours after post)

Don’t run away from your problems because it won’t fix anything. Better face it non-violently of course. You will learn a lot from facing these challenges than from running away from it.

I don’t think that life placed you tehre too be picked at. No one is born to be bullied. You’re there for a good cause. Maybe you’re their to proove that there’s more to man than just skin tone.

If you’re present situation isn’t so good, don’t worry and hang in there because this means the future will be better. Cheer up. It might not seem now but do believe that you’ll meet friends soon. Not everyone is a racists. Who knows? Those who bully you will mature and realize that they should stop what they’re doing.

It’s sad that your school is anti-asian. Discrimination is what hinders the world from growing as a family. But don’t let their jokes be a setback. Brush it aside. Little things amuse litle minds. Plus, you shouldn’t stoop on their level. Rise above the situation. You have better things to be concerned of. Focus on working towards your goals and don’t mind their nasty jokes. Prove your worth. Show them by clean actions that Asians are not to be looked-down upon and that every race deserves repsect. A PLUS factor (not the main reward)is that when you’ll be a great person, they’ll might think that you deserve more respect than what they give you now.

Work hard for yourself such that the world would see you as an Ace Card. You are destined for greater things. So don’t let those bullies spoil the fun and blessing of being in school and getting a good education.

P.S. If they’re abusing you, please report it to proper authorities. I don’t want them punching you or something. Don’t respond with violence okay? Be good and stay in school.

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angrypandaforeve offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Wow, you’d be like worshiped and my school. I’ve always been pro-asian and would probably stalk you along with the other asian fan girls at my school. Like you have no clue how asian crazy the people i know are you’d be very afraid. lol

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