Love help: i dont like myself. - Help.com

You know everyone feels like that sometimes.

i think u should give a chance to someone for loving u,,, this search for better partner never ends, believe me instead our time finishes

i think that you need to try to be a little more outgoing. it’s really hard to break out of that. i used to be the same way. am still a bit i guess. it does get better though. i am fine with people i know and even with people i don’t. as long as they don’t try to get too personal.

i just feel as if everyone’s better than me. and when I feel that way, I cant help but compare my pictures with others, my skin with others, my voice with others, my writings with others, my grades, my love life… its driving me crazy… i feel as if everyone’s smarter, prettier, more loved, friendlier…
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thanks for the replies everyone..

try not to over think what other people are thinking. what they think doesn’t matter.

All that isn’t a good enough reason to insult yourself like that. You should be happy that there isn’t another person in the world like you because that dosen’t make you wierd, it makes you special, and how do you know if someone hasn’t fallen in love with you, there are probably lots of people that have, you may just not have noticed. You really need to have more confidence in yourself if you want a good future, going around concentrating on the negative isn’t going to make it better, start saying that your going to make your life better, say that everyday when you wake up.

Good luck and just do the best you can, as long as your satisfied, thats all that matters.

I often feel the same way.

Just know that you aren’t alone because we all feel ugly at some point, or inadequate, or that we don’t measure up to anyone else.

But don’t let what other people think dictate your life. Look out for number one!!

You are not ugly! Every single human been is beautiful. Do not feel unimportant. Do not feel unloveed. Have some confidence in yourself. Cheer up. If you think no one loves you, just give a chance to the people that may show an interest on you. You will not get anything if you isolate yourself. You are not weir, YOU ARE UNIQUE. Do not try to be part of the “absurd society” in other words do not be what they want you to be. Do not think what they want you to think. Do not feel what they want you to feel. In the end the only person that matters is you. In the end, the only person you can count on is yourself! Consider me from now on one of your bestest friends!!! :)

thanks for the replies everyone…

A lot of people feel out of place. It isn’t exactly natural to feel that way all of the time, I won’t lie to you there, but this sort of problem, the one you’re describing, stems from self-conciousness, and the fact that you consider so heavily others’ opinions of you, even jumping to the conclusion that they think you are ugly and don’t fit in.

A commmon way to take care of this is to find other people who feel the same way you do, and counsel each other. It’s not very difficult to meet someone with this problem, it’s just trying to figure out if they have that problem or not that is hard.

Then there’s counseling yourself. Above all, have you ever considered that your present attitude may be causing the problem? This type of thing feeds on itself, at first you are sad for any kind of reason, maybe feeling down on yourself or just ugly, and then people sense you feeling that way. Since they can feel the negativity on you, the first instinct is to run. Then you start to feel bad because no one wants to hang out with you and your feeling take a turn for the worse.

I could be completely off base here, I don’t know. But then again, who does, right? Just tell me if I’m anywhere near the problem.