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Hi, I am 38 years of age and I am in bad and critical condition nowadays.

Formerly, I was serviceman and also businessman. Everything was there with me – bungalow, car, plots, shops. We were in joint family. Everything I earned in business and in service were invested in properties and the property were made in the name of my elder brother. Unfortunately, my brother expires suddenly in 2000 and then after my bad patch started. All the property which were in the name of my brother were possessed by my bhabhi saying that this is my husband’s own property and I am the alone nominee of this property. We went to court but got nothing from there. Suddenly I become homeless and jobless, when I was the father of 3 children. Elder two girl child and one boy child is studying in X, VII & V standard respectively. Since then I am suffering very bad and try my level best to give at least two times food and education. Nowadays, it is very difficult for me to face day based needs and is unable to give at least two times of food and a quality education for my talented childrens. Lot of time I think for Susaite but small thought comes in my mind that after my death, who will look after my childrens, where since born they have seen some beautiful days in their life. After lot of thinking I have taken hard decision to sell out my body organ KIDNEY to someone needy person from Maharashtra, to come out from this critical situation. After getting some financial assistance, I am planning to buy a small own house in the name of my wife and would like to some investment in the name of my childrens for their future education. I know very well after two years my elder daughter will pass out XII standard and that time I will not be able to give donations and lot of educational fee. That will heart me till my death.
I ask the question to all the people whether my decision is right or wrong.?
How could I come out from this situation? Please help me.

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smoogie. offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 109 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

I think that you need to look else where for the right solution to your problem. We have 2 kidney’s for a reason. They are subject to infection quite regularly so it’s advisable to keep them both. Also what will you do if one of your children need one in the future. Selling one now will be a short term fix. You really need to think harder and draw on your experience rather than grab this last resort.

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crazy_mad offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

hiii,felt vry bad hearing ur condition but u seems to b a vry strong man thinking about ur family and children unlike many other who decide to end their life without bothering abt people dependant on them.I can understand ur situation which compelled u to sell ur kidney, but is there no other alternative left???

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crazy_mad offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

cant u seek help from ur frnds??? if they could provide u with a decent job?

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neku offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

You can also try your luck at online charities like Digital Charity, people may send donations if your story is convincing enough. More information at http://www.laodn.org/

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