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Do you think it is rude to not say goodbye, hello, goodmorning etc to the person you are living with?


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zoo_baw offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

depends hugely on the kind of person…
for me, personally, it’s not that big of a deal, thus i would say ‘no’

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Kosh offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

NO!!! if you dont like the people you live with then dont say it ?

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crazy_mad offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

nt necessary if u dnt like them

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Kosh offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

so then you dont talk to them problem solved ? :-)

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3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i guess i am just used to people saying hi/bye. it is not like we don’t know each other, i wouldn’t expect people to talk then, we are apparently friends and i always make an effort.

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smoogie. offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 109 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Yes without a doubt it is rude…If you have to share a space then you have to be nice.

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Adrenaline! online Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

True.. Depends on the person.. I dont really care about it, but I know some ppl do..

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Rain37 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

For me and the people I live with, it depends on the time of day XD If it’s anytime during the morning, no greeting is expected. Inarticulate muttering suffices if anyone really feels obliged to acknowledge the others’ presences :P
Heheh… but yeah, as has been said, it really depends on what sort of relationship you have with each other, and what your own sense of “niceness” is.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

umm… i say hi and bye to every1. it’s polite. how can you live with some1 and not say hi?

you wake up and say: make me coffee?

oh wait yeah you can. my dad does that. i hate it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

manners cost nothing &seeing why your living together you give respect to earn it

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Oden offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

That scenario sounds’ very disturbing - And greatly uncomfortable.
You must live in a communal block or a half way house. Still, to not be polite is rude.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (9 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Kosh wrote:
NO!!! if you dont like the people you live with then dont say it ?

That in itself is stupid. Why would you live with someone you didn’t like if you had any control over it?

But to answer that question, I would say yes. But that’s my opinion.

-ifrit’s rose- wrote:
umm… i say hi and bye to every1. it’s polite. how can you live with some1 and not say hi?

Yup. Me too. I speak to everyone, even though some people don’t speak back. I think that right there is rude. But it is def rude to not speak to your roommate.

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