Love help: Do girls find race a problem when dating or looking for that someone?

gabeguzman200

Do girls find race a problem when dating or looking for that someone?

I live in wisconsin and to be honest wisconsin is the most prejudice state in the u.s (#2). Which makes me wonder if i will find love? Cause i’m puerto rican and white sometimes i get dirty looks by girls and i think my race could be the factor! Even if i were to have confidence and a high self-esteem i don’t think it still make a difference.

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spazar0w 18 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

i don’t

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gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

really you are problaby not living in wisconsin

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spazar0w 18 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

no- not like that
i live no where near

i don’t think 2 many girls do

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gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

to be honest i have a better time it seems like from other states and right now i’m going to go to school and then move out

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ChristopherB1u 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

u will find some one. **** i glad i dont live in wisconsin.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Well I wouldn’t. I don’t talk to a person and think “He’s black so I won’t like him”

I either like a person or I don’t, but thats because of their personality or how interesting I find them-not the colour of their skin.

The are plenty of mixed raced couples out there.

People should like you for you and not your race.

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gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

trust me sweetheart if you come to wisconsin for like 2 or 3 days you be suprised you can like sense it!

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Mï†z¥-superMODel 5 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I don’t care what color a person is, they could be green with purple polka dots, as long as he’s good on the inside, that’s what counts.
Love will find you, be patient. All females are not racist.

-deadinthehead- 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I tend to fall in love with guys from the other race to tell u the truth…i find that really attractive and more exciting in a relationship. If i can, i’ll wanna be with someone thats off another race…It just thrills me =)

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gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i wish there were more girls who were open like that!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

gabeguzman200 wrote:
trust me sweetheart if you come to wisconsin for like 2 or 3 days you be suprised you can like sense it!

Well those kind of people are shallow then. If the guys decent then he’s worth it :)

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ChristopherB1u 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i date a girl of a differnt race, actually i dont think i ever dated a girl that was the same race as me.

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danbo513 3 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

im a guy, i live in WI, i dont find race a problem. if i was on the dating scene, it wouldnt matter to me as long as i felt that connection.

sparkle2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (35 minutes after post)

dont worry

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danbo513 3 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

the right guy will eventually come along when your least expecting it.

gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

ha ha i’m not a girl man! and i’m not gay either

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ChristopherB1u 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (45 minutes after post)

hahahahahahahahaha aw man

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danbo513 3 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

my bad.. same message still applies.

gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (54 minutes after post)

listen man be mature about it you did that on purpose

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danbo513 3 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 3 months ago (55 minutes after post)

no really, i wouldnt do that on purpose.

gabeguzman200 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

i see

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KDuB 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Girls don’t find Asian men attractive.

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Tnicolle 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I think it pretty much depends on where you live at. Some might like a person of any color but scared to date because of what others might think. But I have no preference. If you are cute, I’ll holla. So I think it could just be those girls. Cause puerto rican and white sounds like a lovely mix to me.

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Tnicolle 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 hours, 23 minutes after post)

-deadinthehead- wrote:
I tend to fall in love with guys from the other race to tell u the truth…i find that really attractive and more exciting in a relationship. If i can, i’ll wanna be with someone thats off another race…It just thrills me =)

ChristopherB1u wrote:
i date a girl of a differnt race, actually i dont think i ever dated a girl that was the same race as me.

So race kind of matters to you guys. You won’t date your own.

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ChristopherB1u 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 hours, 1 minute after post)

it not that i wont date my own, i never have, i dont know why. umm tho i would never date a blond, brunettes are very sexy to me. and i love italian girls. never dated any tho :(

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