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thats why its usually against companies policy to see co-workers like that.

but whatever, you tried, who cares what she thinks.

at least you can say you tried, some people never do..

You would be suffering just as much if not more! You took initiative with your feelings for her and went out with her. Sadly, she doesn’t feel the same way as you. You can’t make someone like or not like you.
Now you just have to accept the way she feels and try not to let that get in the way of your work. Try to keep things as professional as possible. And if you can’t do that, I suggest looking for a new job.

Not only keep things professional, but keep things light! Don’t go around obviously avoiding her at work, etc. You gave it a shot, it didn’t work. You’re still two people who respected one another, and got along at least as friends. Try to keep that in mind. There are other fish in the sea.

Start looking for another woman, one that you don’t work with. Work place
relationships are tricky and risky. In the future if you attempt to hook
up with a coworker again weigh things out a little more before you make a
move. Or better yet don’t even make a move, if it happens it happens.

Hey don’t sweat it, when your at work act like nothing ever happened, you’ll
both forget all about it. Then look for a new love interest elsewhere.

dont sweat it man. there are plenty of ppl who get rejected everyday. it doesnt make them any less of a man/woman. It gives them somethin new to learn about themselves. as for your situation i think you need to tell her you need to talk to her and if she will let you then tell her your sorry u made her uncomfortable but your not sorry for the things you did because those are your feelings and you should never be ashamed of your feelings