girl help: So I know a lot of girls get attracted to “bad boys”, - Help.com

http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Love-**…

It’s not about being bad. It’s about being determined, self confident, and being able to stand up for yourself.

:)

No, its about being bad :)

You’ll attract someone. Just make sure he’s someone that you actually want to spend time with.

Meanwhile, try not to label yourself as “bad” or “good.” ; - )

I guess you might think it’s kind of cute and provocative to call yourself a “bad girl,” but we all evolve. As life goes on, you’ll find you’re “good” in some ways and “bad” in others. Just be yourself, even as everything in your and around you changes.

And take good care of yourself, please.

The difference between guys and girls is that girls like bad boys because they are fun and they make them feel dangerous and out of sync in a good way. But the extent that guys like “bad girls” is only in that we want a girl that will take us out of our comfort zone. Make us try stuff and do stuff we normally wouldn’t think of doing, and make us feel comfortable and excited while doing it. Anything from pool hopping to midnight strolls through grace yards. Its not about being bad, its about being different.

ive always heard that the quiet ones are the ones to watch out for. there wild, you just dont know it yet.

hehe dont worry so much about it, this kind of thing just happens naturally.

Danbo513 wrote:
ive always heard that the quiet ones are the ones to watch out for. there wild, you just dont know it yet.

that is definitly me.
i like to be quiet and lull
you into a false sense of complacency
and then POUNCE!!

game. set. match.

lol !! my kinda of gal.

lol didn’t you once tell me my body fits your requirements?

hmmm?

are you sure that was me ??

yep.

i wouldn’t forget that kind of a comment…

well, if you say so. you know how guys memories are ??

Oh dear… where has this thread gone?

i could get the link if you want…

but it is no matter i am not offended, i loved it!
not many guys appreciate a girl with curves…

I think im put in the “bad boy” category, but im actually pretty nice (if I like you and you dont mess me over anyway)

I kinda like a girl to be the same, a “good girl” wont smoke weed with me, or drink or do anything possibly wild and fun, but a “bad girl” will do all that stuff to an extent that I dont want.

Kinda gotta find the middle, bad but not bad (or bad but smart and responsible) is what im looking for. yet to find it though =/

Malori At Midnight wrote:
i could get the link if you want…

but it is no matter i am not offended, i loved it!
not many guys appreciate a girl with curves…

im glad you didnt get offended, malori. i like people that can laugh and take things lightly. and yes, i do appreciate a girl with curves, lol.

:)

:) I like nice guys.

I think it depends on what you mean by ‘bad’. Just to look at me I probably fit at least one stereotype of ‘bad’, I’ve got the long hair, tattoos & piercings (but I gave the motorbike up to buy a hatchback ;D) underneath though I’m boring, dependable & predictable.
People want excitement and pop culture tells us we can get this from certain stereotypes, but most importantly your average person would be quite happy to throw something away but they do not want it taken from them. The secret behind ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ is that you’re always threatening to take yourself away from your partner. While they may be quite happy to let you go of their own volition, they do not want you to take yourself away from them. So if you threaten to leave they will beg for you back. It’s quite sad to watch really and it’s very embarassing to look back on your life and realise you’ve fallen for it. It’s about control, you can get in control just by pretending you’re in control and that’s what ‘bad’ people do - pretend they’re in control.
Stay sweet, find a ‘good’ guy & then you’ll have a real relationship, not a power struggle.

Look you don’t have to change who you are because you want to attract people. You will if you have the right mind set. If your confident and love your self people will to. Its kind of like sales. You’re marking your self you can’t change yourself genetically but you can change your image and confidence.

OMG!!
renzo in a hatchback…
LOL!!

It’s a Ford Focus 1.8 Petrol Injection, what could possibly be wrong with that?

nothin, big boy.

nothing at all.

;)