Well I guess that is your problem, and yes it is sexist. I know you might not want to hear that, but ‘used’?. Women are not a commodity, or property. You want to discard the doll because someone else played with it!
Are you ‘used’? Should you now be off limits to anyone else?
What would you have these women do? Never have another relationship, a happy marriage or children because a guy sees them as ‘used goods’?
You seriously need to find a way around this or you may find yourself a very lonely person.
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good point anubis…do you consider yourself used and dirty?
Anubis wrote:
Well I guess that is your problem, and yes it is sexist. I know you might not want to hear that, but ‘used’?. Women are not a commodity, or property. You want to discard the doll because someone else played with it!
Are you ‘used’? Should you now be off limits to anyone else?
What would you have these women do? Never have another relationship, a happy marriage or children because a guy sees them as ‘used goods’?
You seriously need to find a way around this or you may find yourself a very lonely person.
enough said
idk, if its just a couple then its not a big deal.
but I see where your coming from, im 23 and have only been with 1 girl, but I honestly have not met a person 18 or older that has been with less then 5 people (the number is usually around 15), and to me thats kind of gross.
Its kind of a double standard for most because if youve been with 10 people then you have to accept your partner being with around 10 or a little more otherwise your a hypocrite.
And it really depends if they were just whoring around or if they were long meaningful relationships.
But this definately brings the lonely boat, and idk what to tell you about it besides we just have to get over it.
Are you a virgin? What if you are intimate with a vigin and you decide that it wasn’t meant to be. What of her? Should she cease to exist?
Yup. You’re sexist alrite. Try reading Kate Millet’s Sexual politics, Simone de beuvoir’s Second sex and maybe some of the less extreme Dworkin.
and you guys are wrong girls get used all the time and so do guys….dont kid yourselfs.
and seeing them as dirty if its an excessive number is very reasonable, look how many people have STD’s
jeez dude just suck it up and stop being so stupid…where did you ever get this idea from. its one of the most ridiculous sexist statements ive ever heard…i may even quote it and print it on a Tshirt! Gahd the way some peoples heads work..get over it dude.
I agree, above was mentioned if someone is whoring around, thats different and definetly not attractive. If someone has been in relationships, thats normal.
Anything (std’s) transmitted of course should be told upfront.
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
You dirty bird, Annubis, LOL
2greeneyes wrote:
You dirty bird, Annubis, LOL
Yeah, that’s me. ;)
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
Ima add MJF after that absolutely fantastic and utterly correct this post should be put to sleep were don here!
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
I am a virgin, I choose to wait for the right one. I don’t believe all that bs about girls getting used and mess. They have a mouth they can say no (unless its rape). I’ve been talking to this girl for several months now and she had sex before just to attempt to save the relationship (and lots of times too). I don’t understand that, sex is the most intimate moment a couple can share together…As far as my views of guys having sex before I don’t believe its right and its dirty too. Their isn’t a need to whore yourself out. I mean come on girls really think about it he was in someone else??? I am talking about girls tho because I am a guy and well I like girls.
Condoms don’t take care of all stds either but its more then stds that bugs me.
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
Yes, well I am incredibly beautiful. Potential lovers just fall at my feet.
(usually because they are unconscious! haha)
Poor poster is gone. The helpers from He** . Wonder who else would like our help?
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
Yes, well I am incredibly beautiful. Potential lovers just fall at my feet.
(usually because they are unconscious! haha)
Drinking contests?
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
Yes, well I am incredibly beautiful. Potential lovers just fall at my feet. (usually because they are unconscious! haha)
lol
i guess if you believe in sex only after married or something, then it’s totally your choice and im gonna support you 100%…
but basically what sort of ticks me off is the term ‘used’…
think more about respect mate, who are we to judge?
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
Yes, well I am incredibly beautiful. Potential lovers just fall at my feet.
(usually because they are unconscious! haha)
Drinking contests?
Oh yeah. And the rest haha.
Yes this morning I helped to young men deciding which way to lie to dump another girlfriend who was 15 for a 13 year old. They were calling the one girl a saftey net. I worked a couple hours on that one.
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Anubis wrote:
MJF wrote:
Sex means bugger all mate. If you are worried about STD’s - well that’s what rubbers are for. If you are worried about the idea of them having had lots and lots of sex, well here’s some news for ya - they probably take a dump once or twice a day too - would that put you off? Sex is just a biological function
I think I just peed myself laughing …… Oh no, no one will want me now, I have bodily functions! :)
Nope. You see you have to basicaly be a (barely) moving and (barely) thinking version of one of them Realdoll things…… Oh and no past
Yes, well I am incredibly beautiful. Potential lovers just fall at my feet. (usually because they are unconscious! haha)
Drinking contests?
Oh yeah. And the rest haha.
I’m pretty good at em - I have a problem with drinking games - there is often a pause inbetween the drinking….
zoo_baw wrote:
i guess if you believe in sex only after married or something, then it’s totally your choice and im gonna support you 100%…
but basically what sort of ticks me off is the term ‘used’…
think more about respect mate, who are we to judge?
Exactly! I have problem with two people choosing to stay virgins until marriage etc, (in fact it is sweet) but this is something different.
I’ma gonna share some personal info with you all. This ticks me off, for all of the above intellectual reasons, but also because:
I was divorced at 25 and left with a 3 yrd old child. Should my life have been over at that point? Should I never have remarried? Was I just ‘used goods’?
Anubis wrote:
zoo_baw wrote:
i guess if you believe in sex only after married or something, then it’s totally your choice and im gonna support you 100%…
but basically what sort of ticks me off is the term ‘used’…
think more about respect mate, who are we to judge?
Exactly! I have problem with two people choosing to stay virgins until marriage etc, (in fact it is sweet) but this is something different.
Poop, I meant *No problem*
Anubis wrote:
I’ma gonna share some personal info with you all. This ticks me off, for all of the above intellectual reasons, but also because:I was divorced at 25 and left with a 3 yrd old child. Should my life have been over at that point? Should I never have remarried? Was I just ‘used goods’?
No Anubis, you are not used goods!!!!
Used hard and put away dirty. Why didn’t you climb in one of those drawers at the morge? You are a mortician, correct? You were already home! LOL Gosh!
Anubis wrote:
I’ma gonna share some personal info with you all. This ticks me off, for all of the above intellectual reasons, but also because:I was divorced at 25 and left with a 3 yrd old child. Should my life have been over at that point? Should I never have remarried? Was I just ‘used goods’?
absolutely not. even if you are, you sound like a great person… a second hand ferrari is still a ferarri
2greeneyes wrote:
Used hard and put away dirty. Why didn’t you climb in one of those drawers at the morge? You are a mortician, correct? You were already home! LOL Gosh!
yeah, I should have just put myself onto the shelf as a shamed spinster.
Im not saying all girls, Im not running around putting “X’s” on people because of their past. Its ONLY girls whom I would be in a relationship with. I want my one not a one.
steff
phuckit!
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