My advice to you is to cut all of these people off as freinds and be more productive in your own life. Sara should do the same as well as Erica.
Oh and Shay should give the child up for adoption, it is clear she can not care for it properly.
Da⌐11 wrote:
Oh and Shay should give the child up for adoption, it is clear she can not care for it properly.
Already know that and she wont, she is determined to keep it no matter what
Da⌐11 wrote:
My advice to you is to cut all of these people off as freinds and be more productive in your own life. Sara should do the same as well as Erica.
I don’t wanna ditch em, they’re the only friends I have and Ill stick witht hem through this no matter what. I just need some adbice one how to handel it
Well then it is clear you do not want to make the right decisions in life, so what does it matter what you do if its all going to be wrong.
The same seems to go for Shay as well.
You have no right to tell me whats wrong and whats right
I’m sticking by my friends whom have ben there for me when i needed them.
thats the right thing to do. Also dont even compare me to shay…not saying u r but if so dont, i am nothing like her
Sure I can tell you what’s right and what’s wrong.
What is wrong is sounding your self with destructive situations, people and behaviors.
What is right is removing your self from distractive situations, people and behaviors.
This is not rocket science nor is it all that morally in-depth. Its common sense.
I never did really understand common sence.
What im saying is I can;t remove myself completly, If my friends need me for somthing ill do it, but I wont go ahead and start trouble either, I know my limits and I know i can’t fight to well but My friends would do anything for me and ll do anything for them in return
Common sense would tell you to get new friends that do no put you in this type of situation.
Common sense would also ask “what kind of friends are these who involve you in such problems”
Erica and tiffany arnt the best people, Im aware fo that
and i try not to get nvolved with, but me and Sara have been best friends (sisters) for 10yrs and I wont give that up. thats the main reason i posted this post because im scared for her. I’d give my life for her, and she’d do the same for me, if everyone else wants to get busted up, ok… ill feeel bad and wanna beat somone down but i doubt i would, but if somone goes for sara no one will hodl me back, i’d ill for her.
If that’s how you feel common sense would tell you to get Sara to follow you into a new life that is devoid of the problems you find your self in. Don’t let pride keep the both of you down.
In order for you and Sara to do this, you should simply stop associating your self with these people. Don’t go around them, don’t blow kisses to them, don’t say “bring it on”, just divorce them from your life completely.
What you don’t seem to see is that you give all these people power over you when you engaged them in this manner. There actions cause you to react, that is power. What you and Sara need to do is take back control of your lives and make sure you only commit actions and not reactions. Further make sure every one of your actions further your pursuit of happiness what ever that may be, money, kindness, power over others.
OK, yea so did Erika press charges on shay for assault? … other than that there is just too many names and I’m so confused lol. If shay is pregnant what the heck is she doing fighting people does she not know this is dangerous? Well it sounds like Sara already told shay to bring it on… what more can you tell her too do. Really she should try too talk too shay and apologize for acting the way she die.
Also on a personal note I don’t believe it is anybody’s right to judge anyone else. What gives Sara the right too call them *****? Even if you think it is true why does your opinion need to be voiced unless you want to hurt someone.
Good luck
This feels like one of those math problems I had too do in 8th grade :)
No Sara should not talk to shay ever again. She should cut Shay out of her life completely. That same goes for you as well. You should also cut the other people who act destructively out of your life as well.
What gives me the right to judge anyone else? I am alive and I have a mind capable of critical thinking.
Im sure you have an opinion about a person who rapes children? what gives you the right to judge that person. Its because you are a live and have a mind capable of critical thinking.
As i said earlier This is not rocket science nor is it all that morally in-depth. Its commonsense.
What is wrong is sounding your self with destructive situations, people and behaviors.
What is right is removing your self from distractive situations, people and behaviors.
Well judge not less ye be judged…. honestly tho your not judging that rapist an opinion is different from judgment. My opinion is all rape is bad so I hate what the person did. It is not my place too make a judgment on someone who committed rape. It is my place to hate what he/she did. Until you are in someones shoes you have no idea why they did anything. It is not your place too pass judgment.
wow I wish my post would have gone through.. basically I said judging and having an opinion are a different matter… but when it is approved you may understand what I’m saying better.
Sara I could never cut fro my life
Tiffany and erica reyna and shay I would but its easier said then done.
Reyna is my next door neighbor, if i start trouble im in deep s*** and she’ll do it too because her and I already had it gone when we were in 8th grade. she came over to me and dumped a whole bucket of crap on me but stupid me forgae her and moved on. Tiffany, me and sara got into a fight last year because tiffany was staring trouble all the time but we both forgave her and moved on. Its hard to forget these peole when i depend on them for me to keep moving on in life, its hard for me personaly to forget tiffany especally and Erica because there my closest friends besides Sara ashley and Monkey. i wanna let them go but i dont know if i can
Let me tell you a bit about Reyna then you can think of her as you want and maybe see where im comming from
Reyna is 15 and in 10th grade
She comes from a bad household of drug dealers
She smokes pot and cigs along with drinking
She has had sex ACCORDING to her many times
She thought she was pregnent a couple weeks ago and while saying this she was smoking a cig
She said that if she was pregnent she would get an abortion or have her CURRENT boyfriend make sure the baby would be dead come birth
This is what I know about her, this si whats eh has said TO MY FACE and this is why i believe her to be a whore, ****, tramp, trashey ect. what you would like to think about her is your discisuin
Kyle_C wrote:
Well judge not less ye be judged…. honestly tho your not judging that rapist an opinion is different from judgment. My opinion is all rape is bad so I hate what the person did. It is not my place too make a judgment on someone who committed rape. It is my place to hate what he/she did. Until you are in someones shoes you have no idea why they did anything. It is not your place too pass judgment.
Sorry, even saying I hate what he did, is a judgment. Its a judgment that what he did was wrong enough to hate. You can call that what you wish, but it is all the same.
And there is nothing wrong with your judgment, its human nature and can not be divorced. With out judgment societies would become a-moral and chouse ensues as there are no longer rules of acceptable behavior.
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