friends help: I don’t have any close friends.

cdog2160

I don’t have any close friends.

You know, those kind you spent all your days in high school with and you never forget? I don’t have any of those. I long so deeply to have a friend or two, no, at least one, who I can spend all my time with, share all my moments with, laugh, sigh, moan, complain, rejoice, spend my friday afternoons with. I wish I had one of those kinds of friends that people get while they’re in high school, but I don’t have any. Why don’t I have any of those kinds of friends? Why does it seem like I’m all alone? Why does it feel like so much is missing even though I know I have so much?

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The night 530 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

sadly i have no close friends either

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Me neither, but I don’t care…lol
Although I’ve friends, but none of them is “close”…

rocco #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

me neither but i wish i had

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Puck You 50 #
Spokane, WA, US | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

me either.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Are your high school days over? or is there still time?
if you stay open-minded and friendly, you can still make a close friend, don’t worry…you’re never alone!

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cdog2160 1 #
US | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I am still in high school, I’m a sophomore. But what do you mean by ‘open minded’ and ‘friendly’? I feel like I know people and people talk to me some, but but I’ve never felt close enough to assuredly call them a ‘friend’, much less a ‘best friend’. What does it take to get to that extra step?

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2511 ♥ S ☺ 342 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

cdog2160 wrote:
I am still in high school, I’m a sophomore. But what do you mean by ‘open minded’ and ‘friendly’? I feel like I know people and people talk to me some, but but I’ve never felt close enough to assuredly call them a ‘friend’, much less a ‘best friend’. What does it take to get to that extra step?

Don’t put so many barriers on friendships…so many labels…just let it flow…

bluflames83 55 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

hmm im a freshman but i dont have any close friends either. i know exactly what you mean by not being close enough to call anyone a friend, i feel the same way.

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Neutra 83 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

If you can’t find any friends in school, then try to find some that live near where you live. May not be the same as the ones in school but it’s better that nothing.

Susu 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

me neither i never had close friends. highschool was bad for me cuz girls hated me! in the end i didnt care cuz university is a new life!

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forever84 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days after post)

I felt like that my freshman year and I am a junior now. I do have a close friend not and I worked really hard to be friends with her. Start by talking to someone you have stuff in common with. Try asking them to hang out and then over time a friendship should develop.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

i only have like one friend but i never gt to see her she has her own life i spend all my free time at home and i never go out, i dont know how to make frends its hard bcos when ppl ask what i did on the wknd i never have anything interesting to say and its too embarrassing 2say well i have no friends so i stayd at home with my parents. I really dont know what to do cos i want to go travelling or move overseas but i dont want to go by myself…

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