guy help: My biological clock is ticking! - Help.com

what you want me to come round be all passionate and romantic then have my wicked way with you

sorry cant washing my hair

Slow down, you probably sabotage all your relationships and potential ones by demanding the guy father kids with you at the start.

Commander Ikari wrote:
Slow down, you probably sabotage all your relationships and potential ones by demanding the guy father kids with you at the start.

I disagree.

I’ve heard that guys in their early twenties find it a huge turn on when girls pressure them to have kids

live4life wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
Slow down, you probably sabotage all your relationships and potential ones by demanding the guy father kids with you at the start.

I disagree.

I’ve heard that guys in their early twenties find it a huge turn on when girls pressure them to have kids

That is news to me. Even if it was a turn on, do you think for a second they would with a woman they just met?

no men at that age would run a mile there prob only a handful that would say yes but there the one your mum warned you about

Commander Ikari wrote:

live4life wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
Slow down, you probably sabotage all your relationships and potential ones by demanding the guy father kids with you at the start.

I disagree.

I’ve heard that guys in their early twenties find it a huge turn on when girls pressure them to have kids

That is news to me. Even if it was a turn on, do you think for a second they would with a woman they just met?

Haha sarcasm.

My mind is burning out….

You are 22, practically a kid yourself. Live your life to its full potential, travel, make new friends, study, work, volunteer, do fun stuff. You practically have 23 more years, more than how long you lived so far, to have kids. One day when you will be more mature, you will meet the man who would be your lifelong partner and the father of your kids you were looking for. Kids deserve their fathers just as much as they deserve and need their mothers, so you cannot be that selfish to decide for them you would raise them alone. You would deprive them of something wonderful they deserve to have. Unless you want to adopt a child and you can finance it for the next 18 years alone, you won’t be able to find a boy or a young man of that age who would just father a child and go like nothing happened. It is valuable what you feel but you are very young to really know all the pro’s and con’s of childbearing and raising. I know there are very mature 22 years olds but having kids without a father in their lives is just not right.

easy now, beleive me there are enough kids on earth with out a father as it is!!!! get a hobbie!!!

It cant take well beyond 22 to find a match. Your biological clock has quite a bit of time left on it.

the end wrote:
I am 18 years old. I have also felt my “biological clock” ticking down on me since i was 13/14. Granted, i know that is young, but i have always known that i what i want is a large family, and be a young mother. But i choose to face reality everyday. I want to be able to finish college and get my degree. i want to get married first, have the big “to-do”, and raise the family i have always wanted properly, the way i planned. but truthfully, i feel that everyday, that clock speeds up, and my punishment will be to never have kids. but i will not let that influence me to screw up my life. listen to me, just wait, and eventually we will all get our turn if we truely want it.

There is no known feeling of your biological clock ticking. That is called imagination. Women have been known to have kids as late as their 60s. Different women get menopause at different times but you have a lot of time left at 18 or 22.