Love help: Some things sneak up on you.

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Some things sneak up on you.

They say people never change, maybe so.
I’m in a low point and I worked so hard to get here.
I am now a responsible, professional, and bored man.
******* christ howd this happen
My friends are far and few between. Most of them are still doing the same drugs and stunts we did as teenagers.
I love em all but i cant handle the destructive lifestyle
I can’t seem to find my social niche
im 23 years old
i do not like people that are not genuine
i work in the woods for weeks at a time.
i am in a social black hole
ive taken to pretending that im not these things
ill go out to lunch, alone.
smile and tip the server
most people think im a recluse and happy in it

so what do i do?

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miss_enigma 247 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Find people who are genuine, find new interests, “network”.

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chev.jame 33 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

You work in the woods for weeks at a time? Sounds like a great job to me! So . . . what do you do when you come out of the woods?

miss_enigma 247 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

chev.jame wrote:
You work in the woods for weeks at a time? Sounds like a great job to me! So . . . what do you do when you come out of the woods?

I was thinking the same thing, I’d rather like to go live in the woods permanently!

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outside 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

no doubt i love my job
its my blessing and my curse
im a crew superintendent for a 20 man fire crew
im in the practice of coming off as superior as a way of distancing my self and controlling the attitude of men that work for me that are much older than i
pretty much i cant have friends at work aside from my captains

i feel like “ive grown up” faster than people my age

Help me with: A rant.

Anonymous edited this post 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

Some things sneak up on you.
They say people never change, maybe so.
I’m in a low point and I worked so hard to get here.
I am now a responsible, professional, and bored man.
******* christ howd this happen
My friends are far and few between. Most of them are still doing the same drugs and stunts we did as teenagers.
I love em all but i cant handle the destructive lifestyle
I can’t seem to find my social niche
im 23 years old
i do not like people that are not genuine
i work in the woods for weeks at a time.
i am in a social black hole
ive taken to pretending that im not these things
ill go out to lunch, alone
smile and tip the server
most people think im a recluse and happy in it

so what do i do?

Anonymous edited this post 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

Some things sneak up on you.
They say people never change, maybe so.
I’m in a low point and I worked so hard to get here.
I am now a responsible, professional, and bored man.
******* christ howd this happen
My friends are far and few between. Most of them are still doing the same drugs and stunts we did as teenagers.
I love em all but i cant handle the destructive lifestyle
I can’t seem to find my social niche
im 23 years old
i do not like people that are not genuine
i work in the woods for weeks at a time.
i am in a social black hole
ive taken to pretending that im not these things
ill go out to lunch, alone
smile and tip the server
most people think im a recluse and happy in it

so what do i do?

miss_enigma 247 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

outside wrote:
no doubt i love my job
its my blessing and my curse
im a crew superintendent for a 20 man fire crew
im in the practice of coming off as superior as a way of distancing my self and controlling the attitude of men that work for me that are much older than i
pretty much i cant have friends at work aside from my captains

i feel like “ive grown up” faster than people my age

Therein may lie your answer, you need to make friends with people who are older and/or more mature. They would likely be more understanding of the demands of your work and accepting of the fact that you aren’t always available.

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2Hazel 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (49 minutes after post)

check out others who are interested in outdoors, maybe in different areas like tracking, art, orienteering rock climbing etc.

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afairban 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 hours, 44 minutes after post)

i admire u. i wish i could be so strong to be alone like that. if i didnt have my friends surrounding me all the time, id go crazy

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