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Relationship Help?

My girlfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago, and I’m still in love with her. But the case is different, for the fact that she does have obsessive compulsive disorder, and some cases of anxiety disorder, and is on medicine for it as well. She basically is obsessed with everything being organized. But recently, she has told me she isn’t interested in guys at all, and would prefer being alone. I would hate to see her alone for the rest of her life, and don’t want her to live that way.

I’m a Senior in Highschool now, and I just want more time with her. She doesn’t seem to want to do anything with anyone, but still calls me every day to talk on the phone, and we do still talk like we used to sometimes. Can anyone help me? How can I get her back before it’s too late? :/

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2Hazel offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

buy her some organizing equipment, like closet organizing shelf set, and a pocketbook with several pockets and compartments. Maybe that would break the ice.

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Miss Emotional offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

You cant get her back unless she wants to get back with you
its her decision to be alone and as the man who still loves her you need to respect her and that choice in her life. Stay close to her, or as close to her as you can but as to getting back with her there isnt anything u can do bu there for her.
I wish u luck

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secret.cove offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

woa. back up. first of all if u wanna get back together with this girl. make sure its not because u feel sorry for her. makes sure it is purely because u love her. because if she broke up with u, she prob. did it to look out for herself, not you. (please excuse my bluntness) but yeh. remember she prob. knows what she does and doesn’t like. so if she doesn’t like guys dont push it on her. be her friend, love and care for her. but don’t push anything she doesn’t want on her.

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