friends help: my best friend and i kissed! - Help.com

2511 wrote:
Have a non-compromising relationship!Those are great!

what do you mean?

Anonymous wrote:
no comment at all

umm thanks…?

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:
Have a non-compromising relationship!Those are great!

what do you mean?

A “closer” friendship, if you know what I mean…

ohh yeah we’ll if thats what she wants then ill do that. but should i make a move on her next time we’re alone?

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:
Have a non-compromising relationship!Those are great!

what do you mean?

A “closer” friendship, if you know what I mean…

ohh yeah we’ll if thats what she wants then ill do that. but should i make a move on her next time we’re alone?

Mmmmm…you should see how things go..maybe it was just the rush of the moment for her…

Maybe taking things too seriously here isn’t the best…

ugh thats not what i really wanted to hear, but you might be right…

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:
Have a non-compromising relationship!Those are great!

what do you mean?

A “closer” friendship, if you know what I mean…

ohh yeah we’ll if thats what she wants then ill do that. but should i make a move on her next time we’re alone?

Mmmmm…you should see how things go..maybe it was just the rush of the moment for her…Maybe taking things too seriously here isn’t the best…

ugh thats not what i really wanted to hear, but you might be right…

Well, maybe it’s for the better…Always try to move towards that ;)

yeah. thanks you were lots of help =)

rose21 wrote:

marionms wrote:
I’d say try to kiss her again and see what happens.

i agree..it was probly a little curiousity and fun. if she doesnt want to hurt u then u must understand where she’s going…and dont worry this wont make it awkward unless either of u choose it to be, it can jus be another one of those casual random things :)

thanks. and tonight i kissed her again. right when she was leaving i grabbed her and did it. she didnt pull away, so im guessing thats a good sign..right?

2511 wrote:
You got her ;)
Congrats!

=) sweet. but now im feeling like shes being distant, like physically. do i still have her?

2511 wrote:
Maybe she’s overwhelmed… o.0

Try going slower

yeah ok thanks. mind if i keep you updated? its ok if you say “no” i totally understand =)

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:
Maybe she’s overwhelmed… o.0

Try going slower

yeah ok thanks. mind if i keep you updated? its ok if you say “no” i totally understand =)

Sure!

I’d like to know of are things going!

sweet! thanks =) well thursday she came over and i remembered that you said to take it slower, so to make her think, i didnt kiss her but i did flirt with her. is that what you meant by go slower?

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

2511 wrote:
Maybe she’s overwhelmed… o.0

Try going slower

yeah ok thanks. mind if i keep you updated? its ok if you say “no” i totally understand =)

Sure!

I’d like to know of are things going!

sweet! thanks =) well thursday she came over and i remembered that you said to take it slower, so to make her think, i didnt kiss her but i did flirt with her. is that what you meant by go slower?

Yeah, it’s more like waiting for her to feel more comfy with the situation…

But always remember to read her language, to know what to do in th right moment is always useful, in all the moments of a relationship…

And, was it ok?

yeah but shes one of the most confusing people to understand lol. like she’ll tell me what she doesnt like in relationships but then she’ll want me to do it. for example she told me that she doesnt like clingy poeple who like text her all the time and call her all the time, but she tells me to call her everyday and she texts me all the time. lol. and was what ok? not kissing her?

rose21 wrote:
maybe she’s not used to a girl-on-girl relationships, she doesnt know if it’s right, and she doesn’t want to ruin ur friendship with her…do u know what i mean. maybe u should not rush ito things and see how it goes…it may end up being a casual fling, or it may turn into something more serious. :) x

haha well actually shes used to girl on girl. we dated almost two years ago and have been best friends ever since. thats why im so confused on why she wont be with me. and i understand about ruining the friendship , but ive told her that i would never do anything to put our friendship in harm, she means more to me than that. is there anything else i can say to her to help her understand?

rose21 wrote:

Ticklemeelmo273 wrote:

rose21 wrote:
maybe she’s not used to a girl-on-girl relationships, she doesnt know if it’s right, and she doesn’t want to ruin ur friendship with her…do u know what i mean. maybe u should not rush ito things and see how it goes…it may end up being a casual fling, or it may turn into something more serious. :) x

haha well actually shes used to girl on girl. we dated almost two years ago and have been best friends ever since. thats why im so confused on why she wont be with me. and i understand about ruining the friendship , but ive told her that i would never do anything to put our friendship in harm, she means more to me than that. is there anything else i can say to her to help her understand?

oh well maybe she likes someone else too? i don’t mean to make u paranoid but if u ask her honestly since she’s your friend she would tell u the truth, or maybe she doesnt really want a relationship right now. if u really like her that much, u will be patient and wait for her to be ready for a relationship. xx

yeah youre right if i do really want to be with her i will wait.=) thanks