friends help: Lets just be friends.

downman1

Lets just be friends.

Anyone guys hear this of feel this with all the females they meet. Here’s the thing when you are nice to a girl and you build trust this is a great thing. Basic social skills for becoming friends. But there is a reason why a friend relationship and a relationship relationship are different. The difference is in the pudding. If you are only nice to a girl she will only be nice to you back. Unless she has an intent to do something to you. The difference between becoming a boyfriend and a Guy friend is simple. After you develop trust you have to start flirting. I have had this problem before and it has just left me with a bunch of female friends when i really wanted something else. But thats life… Don’t get me wrong. Having female friends is great they can help you with stuff and are good listeners, (but they might tell other people).

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2Hazel 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

do you not like to flirt?

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

No im just not great at it. Sometimes i take stuff literally with certain people

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Also alot of guys don’t know they have to firt. Or they do know but don’t know when

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2Hazel 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Maybe some one, not me, can give you tips on how to flirt.

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mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Agh I hate that phrase soo much!!!
Well, you gotta practice more man.

downman1 wrote:
Also alot of guys don’t know they have to firt. Or they do know but don’t know when

Help spread the word!
You must flirt and you must do it at first contact.

You can turn female friends around you know?

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

No you can’t really turn friends. It’s almost impossible. Plus if they are friends with your friends it could rip you group appart. You wouldn’t poop where you eat

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t say im bad a flirting im just not the best

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mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Well, actually you can!
Yeah, it is hard no doubt, but it is possible.

Have you tried role playing with a girl?..It always helps me
get the flirting part going.

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Dr. Foreman 215 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

downman1 wrote:
You wouldn’t poop where you eat

interesting

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

marionms wrote:
Well, actually you can!
Yeah, it is hard no doubt, but it is possible.

Have you tried role playing with a girl?..It always helps me
get the flirting part going.

role playing ? im not talking about forplay

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mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

NO, that’s not what I meant!
Agh I can’t explain it right now..
maybe somebody else will.

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Dr. Foreman 215 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

you cant exactly roleplay with someone you arent going out with

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

yea how?

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Commander Ikari 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Do what bacon?

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Dr. Foreman 215 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

read.

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Commander Ikari 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

Did that.

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