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i feel so alone right now…

.i am so overwhelmed with the start of school and have just moved into a new apartment.
i keep getting overwhelming feelings and thoughts that everything isnt the way it used to be and im all alone.ive had a girlfriend for the last two years who i love and i keep getting thoughts that since she is at school and i am off were going to drift apart but not just thoughts its like mini panic attacks…its the thought of me not even feeling like i no her anymore and the thoughts of being so alone right now in a new setting that are freaking me the HELL out. i have so much stress with school and studying for the lsats idk…

i just need some advice i no everything is fine im just so worried for no reason that im isolated now and im never going to see my girlfriend and things are falling apart and i dont even no anybody anymore im just here and i barely even no myself anymore…..i need some help.

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Under*The*Couch offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Do you want to talk about it?

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

idk really what else to say i just get these overwhelming feelings and my chest starts to kill and i cant breathe to good idk

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Is it emotional or physical? I’m not much of a doctor, or a therapist, but i might be able to tell what it is

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

both when i get them my heart starts to pound really heard and i find it hard to breathe and then ill randomly start to cry and then it will pass and ill be fine and look back and be like wow i must have acted crazy..idk i just get so overwhelmed and afraid that what is true really isnt and the people i know i dont anymore..

like my g/f is something ill get so freaked out about…like i feel i dont even no who she is and were not the same as we normally are and i start to really get those bad effects i described uptop.

im just afraid that im here in a new setting all alone and the people i know best i dont even no anymore.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

21

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Hmm.. Ive got the same feeling, just don’t cry, sounds like an anxiety attack to me, i may be wrong

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i kinda thought thats what it was…when they passi look back and think they were dumb thoughts and feelings and usally never talk about them idk if i need to talk to a doctor but theyve been happening more and more often latly

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Is this it, this had better work…

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anxie…

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

haah i actually looked at that site right before here…

these arent that common the attacks mabey twice a month for a real short period of time …i have alot of stress right now and i just get feelings of detachment which i think lead into the attacks..

like the thought i dont no my girlfriend anymore and were drifting apart then that just shoots me into a panic about life and i feel like im all alone and i dont know anybody or even myself and idk whats giong on and just a rambol of thougts.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Grrr…lol my help has been helpless, ummm have you tried a hobby to keep this down to a minimum?

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

it usally happens late at night like now lol…idk i dont want to talk to anyone because i feel like its going to be a dumb talk where i feel stupid telling the dude whats going on and hes going to tell me some stupid “techinques” that wont even help.

i just seriously hate the feeling that i get which is sometimes i feel like i dont even no the people i am supposed to know best and everything i know is fake and im all alone and i dont even no myself anymore.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I found this picture on the internet, it is supposed to keep stress away and stuff..
Hope it works, stupid links

http://i466.photobucket.com/albums/rr…

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

haah idk this just really sucks. this has been happning to me like the second time in mabey a 4 days where i get these overwhelming thoughts usally really early in the monring like 6* or late like now and i never really had them to much before now.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Something happening out of the ordinary?

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

just moved back into school and got an apartment off campus and i got lsat test coming up in oct..and the start of classes tom.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Maybe school is stressing you, i just don’t worry about, i don’t care if i get bad reports or that sort of thing, most people say that you should try your hardest in school, but those who do, end up getting stressed and eventually killing themselves, so what i’m saying here is not to stop trying, or try your absolute hardest, but to find your comfort zone and stay there, the stress and worry vanish and you don’t have to worry about bad reports or killing yourself

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tellerman offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

school isnt even a problem i barly do anywork and pull straight a’s i think its more of the change of environment…from being home all summer to back at school which freaks me out and makes me have these attacks

i just get so afraid that everythin i know and im used to isnt true and everyone im close to is drifting away and i dont even no them anymore…

and then when the attacks pass i feel the thoughts were stupid and i dont ever really discuss them with anyone becuase i dont really think about them agian

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Dammit, that took me a while to think up lol ummm….. Tried to see a doctor?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

haha sorry….nah ive talked to them once or twice wheni was younger never really did anything i no there going to tell me dumb breathing techniques or something….i guessi could im not really sure on how to go about that and what type of doctor i should be seeing

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

idk do you ever get the feeling like everything you know (people wise) are like ….im trying to figure out the best way to explain this lol….like there not the same and you dont no them…but yesterday they were normal and you did…basically like one day everything is fine and then today u get the overwhelming feeling like u dont know them anymore and everything has abuptly changed and ur just there in this world alone and then feel like your fake and you dont even no yourself and the way you acted today and everything is just overwhelming

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (55 minutes after post)

I fell that everyday, but i have learned that it is severe depression, so i don’t need to worry about that lol I’m sorry i can’t be of more help, hmmm hows about you contact me here and talk about it if anything happens (Listen to me, i sound like some old counselor lol) i will look on the internet for anything of use, again im really sorry i can’t be more help (Really sorry)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour after post)

alright thanks alot see. the axienty passed a little while ago and now i feel fine and like those were dumb thoughts and i probley wont even discuss them tom with my girlfriend….even tho i probley should anyways

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