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Why does my ex hate me so much?

Here’s the story…he broke up with me because we were fighting too much…I wanted to get back together but he wouldn’t…I ended up finding out I was pregnant about a month later and had an abortion. He wanted me to, yet he wouldn’t come with me or take care of me. He now has a new girlfriend. I have not blamed him for any of this, yet he will not talk to me, he tells me to **** off when i call or text. I dont understand why someone would be so hateful towards someone who has done no wrong to them? I am very very hurt that I have gone through all of these troubling things and he on top of it treats me like garbage. We were together for a year and a half and I dont understand why or how he could dislike me so much and be so mean to me. Do any of you understand this or have any explanation?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I’m really not sure right now. I don’t think I can forgive him. He doesn’t think he’s done (or doing) anything wrong.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I definitely feel abandoned and betrayed among other things. I’m still trying to contact him for foolish reasons I supposed. I miss him in my life. I enjoyed his company so much, I really loved him. I want him to be in my life, if not as a love then as a friend. I don’t understand why he wants nothing to do with me.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (38 minutes after post)

I can’t say I like how he acted entirely as a boyfriend, but is that a reason to be hateful towards someone? I really had enough of his partying or dwindling interest in spending time with me alone, but that never made me hate him or even dislike him. So why does he act this way towards me?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I’m not to sure but your problem is very like mine he cheated on me and now he has a new gf and wanted nothing to do with me… i thought things wouldn’t change but when i was texting him in aug and sept he was just rude and didn’t even want to be friends with me… i don’t know but hey i still want him as a friend thou i know what he has done to me. i guess he acts like that because he has a new girlfriend now and doesn’t want his felings for you to come between that or mess his new relationship up it could be the girlfriend that wants u out. hey i talked to my ex but all he could say was don’t text my phone and he says i’m ruining his relationship i fel the way you treat your ex is the way you will treat the person your with in the end. He is mad at me and i sent a letter with his headphones and no response he acts like he did nothing wrong. everyone said just leave him a lone.

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