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my life is no ordinary life.

im a 17 year old. my life has been in to lot of turns and twists. i have handled them well even though the outcome has not been good. i don’t have friends that i can trust and friends who don’t trust me. im a good man . my foremost concern is to not to hurt other peoples feelings.and that’s the same reason that i think that hurts me . also im not so good with people who are my age i don’t know because because wether im not that mature enough. but i tend to make friends who are are 2 years or younger than me. Ive never had a girl friend or any female friends to at least to communicate.this is one reason for me to feel lonely and depressed.

my other problem is that the dots don’t connect . for me every thing comes from bad to worse .im always positive.everyday when i get up in the morning always what i say is everything’s going to be okay .but it never happens.and i never lose hope about myself and that’s what keeps disappointing me. when i see my other friends . they don’t seem to be in any worry. everything is set for them . they have friends there sports are good ,studies everything people look up to them. for them there’s no struggle.why should i struggle when im a better man than them. why should i suffer? why cant i achieve my targets ?

Im not happy man sometimes i feel hopeless . will there ever be a day when things go my way. I thought teenage days are to have a happy life i feel desperate but i want to keep moving forward

PLEASE HELP ME TO HAVE A BETTER LIFE AND TO HELP ME TO ACHIEVE MY TARGETS so PEOPLE WILL LOOK UP TO ME SO I CAN HELP THEM TO MAKE THEM CHANGE THERE LIVES.

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White Knight offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

My man, the world bows to your courage

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

I don’t know if you read the bible or not but there is no person on earth that can understand the things that you are thinking and feeling right now and if you never read anything else in your whole life it should be the entire chapter of Deuteronomy 30. God is bigger than any of your thoughts and any of your problems.

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Max offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Hey dude, change your life and others will follow:) What did you do yesterday?

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 hours, 21 minutes after post)

wanna know the key? it’s to stop caring. you are you and i am me. do what makes you happy. things surely will get somewhat clearer once you get older and gain more wisdom.

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Sans offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 319 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 hours, 38 minutes after post)

What are your goals?

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Sir Cody † offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 49 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 hours, 59 minutes after post)

vssulliva wrote:
I don’t know if you read the bible or not but there is no person on earth that can understand the things that you are thinking and feeling right now and if you never read anything else in your whole life it should be the entire chapter of Deuteronomy 30. God is bigger than any of your thoughts and any of your problems.

Very good advice.

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3 months ago (20 hours, 28 minutes after post)

What do you mean change my life ? should your childhood be the most happiest part of your life isn’t that what they say , or does it mean that if my childhood is like this my adulthood would be even worse . help me man i want to have a good life so i don’t regret myself for not having one.

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Sans offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 319 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 hours, 30 minutes after post)

My childhood sucked and I’m pretty happy as an adult. They are speaking of change from a religious perspective.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 hours, 7 minutes after post)

man thank you for your words .it gave me some encouragement to me .

shouldnt your childhood be the most happiest part of your life isn’t that what they say , or does it mean that if my childhood is like this my adulthood would be even worse . help me man i want to have a good life so i don’t regret myself for not having one.

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (21 hours, 19 minutes after post)

man thank you for replying me . i do understand what you say.its not the religious perspective . i need someone to talk to man to understand me. i want people to look up to me. i dont want them to be like other people who are mean , well set , never had a struggle in there lives who demands respect and never give respect to others. im confused man . I have a friend who i dont like that much. we study and take classes together when theirs a difficult part in our studies he has a very negative response his remarks will be like thats hard , thats lot to study, im not sure at all whether i can do this . but i always takes the positive side .like i can do it its not that hard than it seems to be. but the interesting point is he always takes more marks than me. i mean come on i study hard as he studies i mean this cant be happening RIGHT

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