girl help: wat to do if u think ur girls taken u for granted? - Help.com

You need to dump her and find someone else who has more respect for you. Why would you stay with someone who treats you like that? And don’t say “because I love her”. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean they love you back, and you deserve to be with someone who returns those feelings.

Well, it’s up to you. If you stay with her she’s probably going to keep treating you like that. You can’t make someone else change. Personally, I think you would be better off without her.

Alright.. Dont dump her then.. U cant do much, just tell her what u feel and what u are thinking..

You can’t change a person. Don’t try. She might be feeling guilty if she has cheated on you in the past. She might have low self esteem because of it.
But you deserve better. If your heart is telling you it’s over then you have to leave her no matter how long you both have been going out. If your both miserable is it worth carrying on?
There is only so much a person can do to make the other person happy. Don’t drain yourself out.
Your girlfriend seems very emotional. It could be her hormones are very up in the air at the moment.

Women’s hormones go up and down. Believe me I can be emotional at times.
Women are worse usually before or during there time of the month. Not nice to hear I know but that’s how it is I’m afraid. She could just be having a very off week. From what you’ve explained she has told you that she’s feeling off. Maybe she knows she’s a grouch at the moment but doesn’t understand why. WHATEVER YOU DO DON’T TELL HER YOU THINK IT’S HER HORMONES. You’ll get slapped for sure.
Talk to her. Try and sort out the problem. Wait it out a while as well. If after a few weeks it’s still the same then you seriously need to ask yourself is it worth being together if your both miserable.

Good Luck.

P.S. Women are hormonally worse when there a teen. I know I was a right Bit** when I was a teen. Like to think I’m a lot calmer now.

screw her dude id dump her on the spot.

ungrateful as hell, wait till its your bday and say it was the worst one youve had yet and see how crappy she feels and wants to leave you after it.

Hmmm . . . no birthday present? Not anything at all? That’s something that ticks off most women. I have one female friend who will very explicitly tell any prospective beau that she expects certain things . . . like flowers on Valentine’s Day, something for Christmas and a birthday present. She was a co-worker, and because she was a good friend, I brought her and another female co-worker some flowers and a box of candy on Valentine’s Day. Well, “Trudy” didn’t get anything from her boyfriend on Valentine’s Day, and she saw those chocolates and flowers I’d left, and she called him up and gave him what for! ;-) So, your girlfriend may have been VERY disappointed not to have gotten at least a modest gift on her birthday! As to the other times, I would have to concede that she is hard to please. Women who belittle the efforts of their boyfriends or husbands are scuttling the relationship. She also throws obstacles in the way of communications, e.g., you try to tell her that her constant complaining and criticizing is having a bad effect on you, and she makes it all about HER and uses crying and tears as emotional blackmail. I would say that you should have gotten her a present . . . and that your relationship is producing more pain and frustration than joy and fulfillment. It’s time to tell her that there has to be changes, or she will be watching your tail lights disappear into the night!

I am sorry to say this hun, but she wil never change! I have seen stuff like this before happen to good guys like you and the girl is just WASTING the GOOD HEART of a GOOD GUY like YOURSELF!

That was wrong of her to treat you like that when you went to all the trouble of making her dinner for her birthday! (Shakes Head) At least you did SOMETHING! I agree that she is taking advantage of you! You seem like a REAL SWEETIE! You really should just get rid of her and get someone who RESPECTS ALL your efforts! I personally, would think it was CUTE and SWEET if my boyfriend (if anyone ever wanted to be my boyfriend) made me dinner and it did not turn out that great! Cooking takes practice! I mean, some people just have no common sense of conception of things like that! You poor thing! I say get rid of her, but that is your call hun. You deserve better! Good Luck! :o)