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Caring more than i have to?

when i first transfered to this school/college/something i dunno what its called ,
i was kinda lonely ,not knowing anybody and all that stuff , i stayed almost the first ten days there by myself , and then this girl came up to me introduced herself and all and took me around. she’s a Muslim girl that covers.

we clicked perfectly, she’s almost in half my classes and she introduced me to all of her friends and everything continued great, i would consider her one of my best friends.

at the end of the year , i stopped going to the school college thingy , for family reasons , and then i get a call that Amy ” the girl” is leavening the school forever , that just shocked me.

i started feeling depressed , and worried for no reason , my friends are telling me i’m not the same anymore , its effected me greatly. Now after summer and the start of the new term , i got the news that she didn’t leave, big relife! depression was gone.

Did i Care more than i should have? or is it because she’s the reason why i am what i am now in school, and her leaving … umm…~ blah i dunno,

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caring more than i have too?

when i first transfered to this school/college/something i dunno what its called ,
i was kinda lonely ,not knowing anybody and all that stuff , i stayed almost the first ten days there by myself , and then this girl came up to me introduced herself and all and took me around. she’s a Muslim girl that covers.

we clicked perfectly, she’s almost in half my classes and she introduced me to all of her friends and everything continued great, i would consider her one of my best friends.

at the end of the year , i stopped going to the school college thingy , for family reasons , and then i get a call that Amy ” the girl” is leavening the school forever , that just shocked me.

i started feeling depressed , and worried for no reason , my friends are telling me i’m not the same anymore , its effected me greatly. Now after summer and the start of the new term , i got the news that she didn’t leave, big relife! depression was gone.

Did i Care more than i should have? or is it because she’s the reason why i am what i am now in school, and her leaving … umm…~ blah i dunno,

phuckit! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

No, I don’t think so. It’s kinda like grieving for someone. And thats completely normal.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It may have been a bit of an overreaction on your part, but I wouldn’t lose sleep over it. You obviously care about this person a lot and want her to stay in your life - there’s nothing wrong with that :)

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GB | 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

i would feel the same way if i were you, i dont think you cared too much at all!

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