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How can i get my family to trust me?

? they all think im gonna end up prego and be a pill popper?

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 65 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Take on more responsibilities around the house. Stop hanging out with the people who they think are bad influences. Do better in school. that sort of stuff.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Be responsible and take care of yourself.

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Well i got signed out of school because of family problems but im tryin tyo get my ged and i was stayin wit my one sisters who was told she was doin them to which aint true

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 65 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

First thing you can do is to begin to talk English properly; for example stayin, wit, doin, and aint aren’t real words

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Kiss my *** and dont tell me how to talk

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baronesslm offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I agree, better yourself by improving your education. People will automatically take you more seriously if you present yourself in a better way.

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Education aint got nothin to do wit people trustin people though

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baronesslm offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Sure it does. I am much more willing to work with, and extend myself for someone who sounds intelligent and educated.

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 65 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

LIPPY59 wrote:
EDUCATION AINT GOT NOTHIN TO DO WIT PEOPLE TRUSTIN PEOPLE THOUGH

Sure it does, you want’s people to think you are intelligent because people trust intelligent people more. They think stupid people are the people who become pill poppers and pregnant. This may not always be true, but the perception that is true exists.

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baronesslm offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

If you’re willing to work hard for an education, it makes sense that you would work hard in other ways, like gaining someone’s trust.

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I just dont see why they dont true me i dont do drugs my system is clean and prego dont need it i got one niece and four nephews and one on the way why have more kids runnin around??

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

it will only cause more drama

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

LIPPY wrote:
KISS MY *** AND DONT TELL ME HOW TO TALK

You want to know how to get people to trust you. This is not how.

Da-11 gave you an honest, helpful suggestion and you lashed out. I can see why you have difficulty commanding respect.

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baronesslm offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Whatever you decide to do, pick a goal, like helping out more around the house, getting better grades, or both, and follow through. This will show that you’re dedicated to something, and that will give your family a reason to trust you.

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BLAH....BLAH.... offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

peace out

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